2006-11-26 17:16:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Is your friend a man or woman? Gay or straight? If you screw around with a good friend you can most likely kiss the friendship goodbye.
2006-11-26 19:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... it all depends. Perhaps you could ask your friend how she feels about homosexuality. Considering the fierce debate over gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights going on nowadays, it's not the hardest topic to bring up.
Once you know her opinion, it's easier to decide what to do. If she's extremely against homosexuality, then... perhaps it's better to get over her. Sorry. It's just that someone who is against homosexuality probably wouldn't be in a homosexual relationship.
If she's neutral, or she supports homosexuality, then I say go for it. Even if she's straight.
It might not be the best method, but... it worked for me. I developed a crush on my best friend (who was female) just a while after breaking up with my boyfriend. She had always been attracted to guys and, of course, considered herself straight, but I went for it anyway. ... Sort of. I figured that if I intended to confess, I'd make it fun. I told her I had a crush on someone, and that she should guess who. She didn't get it 'til three hours later.
At the time, she didn't know what to say, and she was quite embarrassed. (But then, so was I.) But eventually she decided she liked me back, and now we're very happy together.
2006-11-26 17:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol if i were u i would give it time, maybe she is feels the same way about u 2, ya never no until u ask.
2006-11-27 05:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Amber B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it
she knows of you sexual preference, doesn't she?
she will most likely let you know right away if she is or is not inetersted
if she is...good
if not...there is no reason not to remain best friends
best wishes to you
2006-11-26 17:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is NOT homophobic, then tell her how u feel, and go from there. u never know, maybe she likes u too!
2006-11-26 17:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its ok for now .
2006-11-26 17:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋