I HAVE LEFT MY HUSBAND ON 2/11/06 HE HAS BEEN BEATING ME FRM THE WE GOT MARRIED-DAT IN JUNE THIS YAER.NOW FRM THE TIME I MOVED OUT OF HIS HOUSE HE STARTED calIing ME LATELY ASKING FOR MONEY AMOUNTING $3000 LOAN.HE IS ALCOHOLIC JST 4MTHS OF OUR MARRIAGE WE STAYING SEPARATLY.THE ONLY THING HE WANTS IS MONEY.NOW HE IS CALING AND IRRITATING ME NOW AND THAN.
2006-11-26 17:12:54 · 16 answers · asked by SWETA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My advice to you is DO NOT give him any money. Hang up the phone when he calls. If he has been beating you notify the police in your dity or town and get a restraining order on him if possible. If you feel threatend by him you might consider going to a women's shelter. You can find numbers for them in your local phone book. Don't let this crazy ruin your life. Do whatever you can to take charge of your life and stay away from him. Men who beat their wives cannot be trusted. Do not believe him when he tells you he will not do it ever again. He will. Get to a women's shelter AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Do not tell your friends or family where you are going just go. These places have all kinds of resources to help you and to get you moving in the right direction. You need to get your life back don't let him ruin you or your life. Please do this for yourself you do not deserve to be treated badly just because you married this guy.Please get help TODAY!
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2006-11-26 17:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by LeapingLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get him for harassment. You got away from him and that was the best thing you ever did. I can relate to people who were in an abusive relationships and you took a very big step by just leaving him, so now take the steps on getting your own life back together and let him take care of himself. The way he is isn't your fault so you should NOT have to pay for it in any way. Take control and be strong you'll get through it. Just don't fall for the I'M SORRYS or I WON'T DO IT AGAIN that is all lies. He just wants you to feel sorry for him. He is the way he is because he chooses to be. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-26 17:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have your phone #, thats mistake #1.
You should have had your # changed, mistake #2...
by claiming harrasement
to your phone company, they do not charge any fee under these
circumstances, they'll give you a new #.
and in NO WAY should you even consider loaning him $3000,
but it seems you already have Mistake #3.
You are asking for trouble 'from him' just by doing the things you do.
He's using you, and I'm shocked that you cannot see that, but
if you can, then you need help as much as he does..
2006-11-26 17:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 16:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know if he should be calling you or not.
If he is constantly contacting you, you gotta ask yourself: does he have a right to? Was it something you did?
If the money has absolutely nothing to do with you, then so be it, leave it.
But if he has a reason for calling you, maybe you should deal with the things you have to deal with.
take 1 step back, for 2 steps forward.
Good luck.
2006-11-26 17:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by ed_kan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to divorce him..sever all ties from him..but before that, you can get a restraining order on him..he has a serious problem, good thing you got out before something really bad happened..if you two had the loan together, then you are not obligated to pay the whole thing..only half..go to legal aid and talk to someone about what your options are..good luck..
2006-11-26 17:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what was your question again?
You left him for a good huge reason, so let's keep it that way. Change you phone number or ignore his calls. As long as he doesnt make a visit, just ignore. No point to talk now, especially with this abusive piece of crap.
2006-11-26 17:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you get your number changed?? Why is he asking money from you?? Get a lawyer. Change your number.If he finds you through a 'friend' and ask you for money you tell him I was going to ask you for money. He shouldnt be calling you at all.Best to end this now and file for a divorce.Dump him he is a loser.
2006-11-26 17:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek legal advice, file a divorce. Move on with your life.
2006-11-26 17:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by DannyG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need an attorney--get it legal--you won't be safe until it is all taken care of. Beside all of the finances through court. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 17:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by thansen080972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋