Sometimes divorces are long and drawn out and sometimes it may help in order to help you move on. Would that be immoral or considered wrong?
2006-11-26 17:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, don't let others define morality for you. People have wildly different ideas about morality, and many are very fickle about it, changing as the TV tells thame to do so.
If you know both parties in the divorce, you will know if and when it is OK to date a person whose divorce is in-process. If you know only the one party, it would be best for you to try to find out how friendly or unfriendly the divorce is before doing so. Even if the party you will be dating says, "it's ok, don't worry about it," you might hurt that very person, since your presence in the mix may make it harder to get things done.
2006-11-26 17:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont see a problem seeing someone, but dont get to involved, i am busy getting divorced and am seeing someone, but made it clear that I dont want him to be caught up in my problems. we go out for dinners and send each other messages, but he knows that things can never move to another level if we become too involved. Just make sure that the other party is really going through with the divorce so you dont have false hopes. Seeing someone has certainly helped me to move on and kept me focused. I was abused for a long time and although my friend does not encourage me to divorce, just having someone there certainly makes me more determined to divorce. I hope this helped! Good luck
2006-11-26 17:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be the one who decides whether it would be immoral or wrong. Is this guy still living with his wife or are they separated? In my humble opinion if they are still living together it might be better to wait until he leaves to live some where else.
I started dating a "married" man who had been separated from his wife for 4 months before I met him. Some of my friends got real righteous with me about dating a married man. We didn't feel it was wrong because he had been separated for 4 months and had no intention of going back. He and I are married now and having a wonderful relationship. His ex seems to be a lot calmer now that he isn't in her life except to pick up his son for visits.
2006-11-26 17:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by LeapingLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till after the divorce. Divorces tend to be a very bitter time and it becomes easy to be come an sounding board and fellow warrior. So where is the relationship when you no longer have a common enemy? I made this mistake with my ex fiance notice I said ex. The girl he met while we were breaking up(his ex wife yes another EX) made the same mistake. If its meant to be it will happen later when you can have them all to yourself so be selfish and wait!
2006-11-26 17:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait on your spouse to record for a divorce? She kicked you out, it turned right into a foul marriage so why do not you ask for a divorce your self? As for the female friend, there is not any one preventing you. you're separated and see you later as you tell this to the lady you eventually end up seeing, there ought to not be a issue. Your spouse ought to target to apply it adversarial to you contained in the divorce, so shop it in ideas to shop it somewhat discreet until eventually the divorce is very last. She ought to apply it to talk about you've been unfaithful and that is a sturdy clarification for not in simple terms a divorce yet to boot ought to strengthen your alimony funds to her. desire this helps.
2016-11-27 00:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by hodapp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! Wait for the divorce- wait another year to see them adjust to the divorce- and then wait until they've had their rebound fling.
Then it might be safe to date them. Not before.
2006-11-27 02:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he separated? for how long? and is there ANY chance he could get back w/his wife? If it's in the final stages of divorce and noooo chance of getting back, I guess mayb it would b ok.
2006-11-26 17:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the one who brought the divorce to court ( you where the one that stole someone from his wife or husband ), then why wait ... lmao ... if not go about it every carefully ..
2006-11-26 17:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until he's divorced,he's still a married man,so it's wrong.
2006-11-26 17:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course u have to wait... if not, u r consider 3rd party and may be charge too
2006-11-26 17:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋