The next 6 months are going to be a very difficult time for me. I will be graduating from high school after and able to move back to my real home and live the life I love and choose. But right now I am living with very controlling, selfish people in a very cold environment.
Why I had to move away to begin with is because I had no one to support me financially and legally. After graduation, I will be allowed to support myself.
I really don't want to sink back into a depression that I fought so hard to escape. I have become a much stronger, more mature person over the past year that I have had to live in this place (with "family"). My grandparents use me as a way to get back at my mother. It effects me immensely because it is always at my expense. It is completely childish and I am manipulated into a life I do not want-because legally (and in their eyes) I am a child.
Please share advice as to how I could make these next months more tolerable and hopefully faster.
2006-11-26 17:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by andi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't let them know it bothers you! If they don't get the results there looking for they will probably back off. If you need to vent do it away from them. Six months may seem like forever but it is only a small portion of your life. Don't blow it because of there immature and selfish behaviors. Headphones may help tune them out!
2006-11-26 17:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by smilinattheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to go against the grain on this one and say you should confront them and tell them that this is not a good environment for you. They are emotionally neglecting you, and it is stressing you out. Don't grin and bare it because you will end up living with this resentment for the rest of your life. Don't freak out on them, talk to them in a serious manner. I wish you luck.
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2006-11-26 18:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about the section and enable her confirm. you ought to not have a issue inclusive of her seeing it until eventually you've some hidden lack of self belief themes. yet as a women people i will say i'm particular she will be able of not be wondering about him all evening and fantasizing and so on... in the experience that your in simple terms attempting to be a gentleman, then in simple terms enable her comprehend previous to time what to assume. protecting her eyes must be treating her like a baby.
2016-11-27 00:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by hodapp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grin and bear it sweety.It's only six months. It's not like your pullin an extended tour in a combat zone.
2006-11-26 17:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried the silent treatment. Just don't tralk to them at all. This way they will not bother you since you aren't reacting to them.
2006-11-26 17:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by David V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋