We can not live without each other. But our families are against us. As i can not think to live any other girl she is also not ready to accept any other . Now tell wat should i do.
2006-11-26 16:52:40 · 14 answers · asked by abhishek t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
both become Christian and get married...may God bless you both.
2006-11-26 17:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Glory to God 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
See first see the practical scenario.
If ur earning and she can also earn and both of you are above 18/20 check with a lawyer or court. U can marry each other and live together newhere in India. God bless you
One more soln can be: Neone of u get converted to others religion if possible. But better is u both leave every body and live life as u want.
Remeber : when u were child u obeyed ur parents. When u want to marry u obey ur parents.
When u will have kids u will cave in to thier demands.
SO when will u listen to ur heart. I ask WHEN man..
go ahead god bless u
2006-11-26 17:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont Worry man Be brave and marry her no one will stop you. I am a muslim and married a hindu girl. But make sure you should be financially in good position for support her and must have enough mental ability to think wat will happen if you get out of house..... Dont think about the religion and all they are MYTH not real one. If possible try to convince your parents and one fact you cant register your marriage with that ease with our indian laws...
All the best.......
2006-11-27 03:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by afk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What que is this, you should decided, its your future, ur life...
Okay one think i would like to share with you....
I have a friend who is orthodox Bharmin boy who madly love with Muslim girl, first she refused then she accepted it, first both parents were refused very strongly, then they walkout from the house and lived indpendly after a few years ago....they both of them well settled in their life and lived happily,, she give birth one beautiful child to, then their both parents were accepted their and now thier parents also accepted it, after 5 years struggle they proved their love, they are stubend....
If you have brave, brillant, have a guts means go ahead and marry that girl, if your are coward means please leave her and marry the girl as per your parent's choice.... it is totally depends on your confident factor only......
2006-11-26 17:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by idcparthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if the girls parents wants you to convert to muslim,,will u do it,,? will u go against your parents as both families have a religion.... Now if you are goung to convert to muslim,, you are not doing it for the muslim religion but for the girls sake.. Ok, both families disow you'll, can you'll saty as husband & wife without changing your religion.. If hv kids,, do you'll want them to be free thinkers or follow the father or mother.... well both of you'll have fallen so deeply that u'll cant lie without seeing each other, well than see each other every day,,,, keep on living.....
2006-11-26 17:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I would better say that you both wait till your parents accept you both. Love is blind, when you love eachother, you might miss and you will allways try to agree the things which you don;t like it from eachother. Coz it's love, kind of affection,impressive and attraction. But while you go out and marry with or without your parents, you will try to fight, coz each person will expect the needs and wish you want him or her to be. It will end in fight and you might even seperate.Then life will be a troublesum. your child would suffere coz of this.
if your parents are there, they will make you understand. First, you both decide talk about your negatives first and be sure, then make your parents understand you both. Marry with your parents blessings.
since both are from different religion, both talk about it. coz this will make a difference while you grow up a child. Make your mind clear. Then take decisions.
Think of your parents grown you up with all difficulties in there life and gave you everything you want in life. Do you think they won;t accept you both? It will sure take time, but why don;t you both wait for it. don;t you think to sacrifice the time for your parents, as your parents made your fullfills in your life till today.
Think , since you are in india, indian culture is different from western society. People might encourage you saying we are entering 21st centry, but still out culture is same. While your child growup, it might be a problem for your child to do marraige and for your child to live in this wrold in future. Think of all these..
These people still say that you both ran away and those things , Nobody will respect you both and your child will get problems in marriage when they growup. So i would say, make your parents understand you both , fight and wait till your parents accept you both and marry with your parents blessings. That is the best for your future and your child too. I am saying this from my own experiance.
2006-11-28 06:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can marry only under Special Marriages Act. Both of you need to be over 21 and need to file an application before Registrar of Marriages in your City (Please remember to carry your photographs) and give one month's advance notice of your intention to marry. Registrar will invite objections (generally by pasting a notice on board at his office). If there are no objections, then on the day fixed for marriage, you will have to bring two acquaintances to sign as witnesses on the marriage deed and your marriage can be solemnised. Please remember upon marrying under Special Marriages Act, in the matter of inheritance or divorce etc., you case will be dealt with under provisions of said Act and not under your religious Act.
2006-11-26 17:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Geepee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
apart from parents there are bound be others who create big controversy which u may not be to face. as a matter of fact there is nothing like "can not live with out each other", get out of it , u can and she can, it is more of physical attraction ;at the moment, i am sure u both will lead a happy life with out each other.. it matter of time... time is the best healer.... come on man be brave...get out and try to forget
2006-11-26 17:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi see still today people fnd it difficult to accept interreligion marriages. but i would advise u to wait n convince ur parents. or else u can take help from d one in ur family who can influence ur parents. if nothin works den u can ask us again. v wil surely help u with new ideas if offcourse u r not in a hurry n u can wait. so gud luck.
2006-11-26 17:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by neva_mehta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both are 25 or older and can support yourself then get married.
2006-11-26 16:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u have ability to oppose ur parents ..then get married with her.
or
forget her.
2006-11-26 17:10:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋