We can live without each other. But our families are against us. As i can not think to live any other girl she is also not ready to accept any other . Now tell wat should i do.
2006-11-26 16:47:58 · 11 answers · asked by abhishek t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
First, how old are you ? Second, did you say ''we can'' or ''we cant'' live without each other ? I assume you said ''we cannot'' live without each other. Why are your families against you ? Are you educated, can you work and take care of yourself and this girl ? If you can, there is no reason anyone should stop you, or even could stop you. Just get married, if you cannot live without each other. And live happily ever after..........a few years from now, your parents will come around, probably when you have kids.........(filmi, right ?), but try it anyway...
good luck..
P.S. Sorry Mintee, with all respect, you are forgetting just how many women do marry outside their own caste, whether muslim, hindu or christian....and live happy lives. And I am so surprised that when you say, there will be confusion, how can two people who love each other have confusion over their child ? and further you say, """"...............and seeing as most men are head of households, they are afraid that he might persuade the wifes thoughts away from islam.."""", is that all there is to your faith ? I mean, why would your men be ''afraid'' if they know their faith is absolutely true, and strong...and sure that their faith is true. You are letting down your own faith by saying that. And then love succeeds everything...if both of them are determined...and not base it on any religion..
2006-11-26 16:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You muslims are so "tolerant' of other religions that it's sickening that in today's day and age, you still adhere to primitive stupidity and illogical reasoning in regards to marriage. I guess you muslim women enjoy being subjugated and beaten senseless by your muslim men or else you would not be making the argument you are making. I've seen people of different faiths marry and live in complete harmony, but when muslims are involved, it's an absolute taboo and the non-muslim "must" convert or it won't work. Even conversion won't be accepted by the fundamentalist muslims, as that is isn't good enough for them. Then again, if you ask me, why would anyone who is not a muslim want to get involved with a muslim girl, knowing full well that he will subject himself to a world of misery driven by a religion that has no place for other religions?
2006-11-27 01:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is possible for you to live together without your faiths causing arguments, then I think you should go ahead and marry her. But I think your parents may be right, Islam and Hinduism are so different, you may not be able to tolerate eachothers religious practices. Maybe if neither of you practice your faith or if one of you is willing to convert to the faith of the other it may work.
I am in a similar situation, I am Christian (Baptist) and my wife is Catholic. Her church has statues of saints and angels, these statues are not permitted in my church. My wife does not want to use condoms because the head of the catholic church (the pope) is against it, my church is not against it.
You should pray about it.
2006-11-27 02:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i hv said,,,,, think wisely,, cause u are a hindu and she's a muslim.... if u convert to muslim,, i dont think its fair as you are only converting to muslim because of the girl.. What happens once you get to marry her after converting to muslim,,,,, can you follow all the rules of a muslim or the other way round.
Its your choice and why wait,,, you know the best..
2006-11-27 01:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup go ahead n marry d gurl if u luv her soo much but then try n convince ur folks, it makes life easier.Such a marriage calls 4 gr8 commitment 'coz f d huge cultural change.U guyz'l hav 2 work harder than usual 2 make d marriage a success.Think agn dere shud nvr b ne regrets on either side.U can go ahead n follow ur heart..All d best.
2006-11-28 11:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its against Islam for muslim women to marry outside their faith... for one: there will be confusion as to how the children will be raised. Ie: which faith.. Once a muslim, always a muslim and they cannot condon any child of a muslim to be raised otherwise.. and seeing as most men are head of households, they are afraid that he might persuade the wifes thoughts away from islam..
It wont work friend.. so sorry.. unless you consider converting to Islam
2006-11-27 00:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In our India we have great tradition and culture so we have a right
to love a girl irrespective of her caste and relegion .If really loved
that girl don't waste ur time.See,
"live with a person whom do you like".ok
All the best.
2006-11-27 01:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by gows s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her at the end of the day it's you and her will face all not them.
2006-11-27 00:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by missemoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder why we let religion get in the way of happiness if she makes you and only you happy go for it. bugger the parents they dont have to live with her.
2006-11-27 00:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by nm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go head boss
2006-11-27 00:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by dushyanth s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋