2006-11-26 16:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by bxnyrican19 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Know that your body miscarried the embryo because the embryo was not healthy. Relax. It is no fault of your own. When the time is right you will conceive and have a healthy baby. Also, know that it is failry common to have a miscarriage, especially if it is your first pregnancy. www.babyzone.com has some helpful info.
2006-11-26 16:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I myself have had a miscarriage ... three times over. Each one was very painful and heartbreaking. The only thing that ever helped me was time. As time went on the pain lessened, I cried less and less. Then one day I finally had a baby that I did not miscarry and I was forever thankful. Because the way I look at it, he is the one that I was waiting for and for whatever reason the time wasn't right so he had to postpone his appearance. To this day however there is still a little bit of sorrow, but my son is far more than anything that I had anticipated. I hope this helps. BUT if in a few weeks to a month later you are still in deep sorrow and depression go see your doctor or talk to a psychologist to help you through it. I have also found that talking to people about it helps with the grieving process. Good luck hon.
2006-11-27 01:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth you never will. I have a had 2 one right after the other. My husband and I are now pregnant again and everything is going fine. But I still think about the ones we had lost. It takes time, everyone is diffrent. With me I just went into depression really bad, but after a while I was able to talk about it and it made me feel better! I suggest just going and hanging out with family or friends and talking about it. Good luck and I'm really sorry for your lose!
2006-11-27 02:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by charlenelipshin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriages are very common... Of course, that doesn't make it any less painful. Just give yourself time.
I had one, but now I have a daughter. I call her my spirit baby - after I miscarried, she waited for me to try again and now she's here :)
2006-11-27 01:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jocelyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you will ever "get over it". You lost a child, even if it was one that you didn't get to hold or know. The pain and sadness will become less and less as time goes on. Mourn your loss and try to move on as best you can.
2006-11-27 00:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry for your loss. It takes time...no one is gonna be able to tell you a time frame...it is gonna depend on you as a person...if you really wanted this baby it may take longer...
2006-11-27 00:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one also recently. There is no relief. It hurts for me. I think it will hurt always. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-11-27 00:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋