For awhile now, when having sex or playing around with each other my wife tells me that she wants to have a foursome. My wife would never cheat on me (I know that) but does she really want to do this or is she just saying it in the heat of the moment to turn me on? How do I approach her about this?
2006-11-26 16:44:17 · 14 answers · asked by jtgot1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
straight out ask her if she is serious..and only do it if you feel safe in your marriage and you want it too..be cautious..it could really harm your marriage if you arent really ok with it..Other then that keep it as dirty bedroom talk too..I say stuff I wouldnt really do all the time
2006-11-26 16:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by mojogirl127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She totally wants a foursome! Just wait til after the moment is over - (your done f******) and ask her if she was serious about the foursome thingie and go from there.
2006-11-26 17:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop playing games, quit tip-toeing around the issue and have a candid, honest discussion about it. Make sure before closing this discussion that all questions are adequetely addressed and reserve the right to request answers to questions that come up subsequently.
2006-11-26 16:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key to any marriage. ask her to be honest with u. is it just a fantasy or does she really want one. ask her what the combination would be (another couple, 3 men, etc.). maybe introduce some toys and pretend. i know i've been after my wife to participate in a 3 or 4 some. im or email me and we can discuss further.
2006-11-27 00:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with other people in your private life is that they are real people, with real feelings, and emotions, goals, and needs. Whose to say that she might end up liking one more than you?
A couple, couples I new started playing switchies, after a few times and a few secrete rendezvous both couples ended up in divorce. But it turned out good when they married each others mates........
I swear true story.........
2006-11-26 17:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably is just saying it in the heat of the moment,but just in case she is not and u would be inters ted to know (for whatever reason) i would just ask her if she means it or not . It is totally legitimate that you would ask her if she says it.. So maybe next time she says it ask her if that is something she really would want to do.
2006-11-26 16:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by haa haa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your wife why she keep saying that next time she say it . don't ask no don't do that because than she will think you are asking because you want it than she will stop wan tin it .so to be on the good side ask why she keep being it up ask her do she really want that than you will know. [ is it good for woman to tell man things like this?
2006-11-26 17:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her...
Sometimes the heat of the moment will make you express your true feelings.
Just remember, honesty is the best policy.
good luck. And be careful.
2006-11-26 16:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what guy wouldn't go for it??
Tell her to arrange it & then meet them--have a planned meeting before actually jumping into bed--get to know them all before you do something you might regret. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 17:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by thansen080972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe she is serious and might be one of her fantasies. but she is just kinda scared to say it sometimes b/c it might anger you. i bet if you agree to it she would have no problem doing it. she just wants u to come out and say it. She would not say it over and over again if she didnt mean it.
2006-11-26 16:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by elpaso_roman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋