i have a freind which is a guy i care about and i was talking to him online and well i did'nt know he had a fight with his ex and i told him i cared about him and what happens to him and i know he cares for me and stuff. well i told him i loved him and i think i should'nt have because he probably does'nt wnat to talk to me for a while. his picture was on my myspace as one of my friends then he was gone frome my myspace top friends then i went to his page & i was still addedd as one of his friends well my comments were still there. do you think he forgave me for what i told him i did'nt mean to tell him i sent him a message saying i was sorry i just told him maybe he wanted someone to care for him& i was being a good friend to him. he does look sad and hurt sometimes. and well his ex they had a fight and he does'nt talk to her that much and he put on his myspace when he was going to see her. i think he might not think i might not be good enough for him. he is shy to tell me his feeling
2006-11-26 16:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well he is probably distancing himself a little bit to avoid awkward moments. It is hard to turn someone down and he probably wants to avoid direct confrontation. In addition he is fighting with his ex, so he is probably a bit jaded with girls right now. it is clear though that he is not looking for a relationship with you or to have you love him, so back off for a while and he will come back around.
There can be many reasons for this, but guys in general do not want to have some girl love them right away because they do not like being commited. Also, if you are not a challenge at all, they think you are too easy and that they can do better.
2006-11-26 16:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he might not be over his ex and perhaps may be confused or not have the same feelings for you. i think once u cross that line of friendship to lovers its hard going back but u can try talking to him and tell him u didnt mean to freak him out but u just feel that way towards him. see what he says and if it seems like u guys can get over it and be friends again, thats great... but if not, then at least u told him how u really feel.
2006-11-27 00:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows. i cant speak for every guy. i'm open about my feelings. he may be scared. how much do you know about him? have you 2 went in depth about his past. maybe he likes you too and still loves her. and may feel that he's at a fork in the road. for now, just continue to be his friend, your day may come. live a little. have fun. maybe you can open up to him a little about your feelings. get him comfortable. once comfortable, he may open up. be patient with him. until then , continue to be a good frien and be there for him.
2006-11-27 00:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by H W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let thing cool a little and it will smooth itself out.
2006-11-27 01:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋