do you think its good or bad? seems alot of people are having problems with spouses being on there. just want opinions
2006-11-26 16:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
myspace is not a "good or evil"; it is a pretty dumb waste of time.
2006-11-26 16:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with anything else, whether it is good or bad really depends on what people choose to do on it.
Sure, there are many marriages in turmoil because of one spouse finding the other on there, making innapropriate comments, or possibly even forming relationships with other people. But, at the same time, those same relationships more than likely had trouble long before Myspace.
Myspace is no different than all the other sites, where contact can be made between two people. There will be those who are using it for things that they shouldn't be, but that doesn't mean the site itself is the problem. The problem lies with the people who are on there, splitting up their own marriages.
If getting on Myspace causes that much trouble in some peoples marriages, I really believe that there must have been problems long before that. A site doesn't cause the problem. The problem would be there no matter what.
Those are my thoughts.
2006-11-27 02:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by lovable_deb_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you're using it. My wife and I are on myspace and we're totally fine with it as long as I don't have pr0n stars as friends or something like that to offend her. If your spouse is on it to find friends or reconnect with old ones, then there should be nothing wrong. If s/he is looking for a hookup, that's when the evil flag should be raised.
2006-11-26 16:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by digitalsoul68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse cant trust you being on myspace then your relationship is bad.
2006-11-26 16:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by BeRandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I both have a myspace....i know his password and he knows mine....he uses his to find local musicans and get his music out there and i like to look up old friends....If you have a good relationship and can trust each other no harm done.....we are happy with each other....it's just a cool place to find people....for us anyway!
2006-11-26 18:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a myspace page and my husband knows about, no problems there. I am not cheating.
2006-11-26 16:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its bad, bad, bad. My husband and I both have myspace and he knows every single person on my friends list. I am currently the only one on his friends list but I know his password and I check his emails on there periodically and have found girls flirting with him. I know it is my own fault for checking his, but I just cant help myself. I want to know what is going on.
2006-11-26 16:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if its out in the open then its cool , on the other hand if its behind the others back then its a no no sex is weird its something we all love and with new partners its really exciting so were drawn towards cheating but then again sex with someone you really love is the greatest. hope this helps a little
2006-11-26 17:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by digger227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I used to have it, just so our old high school friends could find us if they wanted to.
I don't see it as a bad thing as long as you put that you are married and your not looking to date or have intimate relationships with anyone else.
2006-11-26 16:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you worried? Its only bad if you want it or let it be, why be so jelous. Its truely only cheating if they are meeting up and sleeping or messing around with the people.
2006-11-26 16:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋