He has a sister at home with a broken hip. a mother in the hospital in a coma. Also, his other sister is in the hospital in a coma and they think that she is going to die. How can I help him through this???
2006-11-26 16:09:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont want to do the wrong thing because I'm in love with him and he doesn't know
2006-11-26 16:19:02 · update #1
your probaly allready helping him more than you know
2006-11-26 16:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by michael21@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already on the way to helping him by caring.Let him know you are there for him. Spend time LISTENING to him. If he feels like talking.Don't give advice.Offer to help him with chores at home. Take him some prepared food. He'll just need you around to let him know you are a true friend.Maybe he'll need a lift to the hospital.The most important thing is don't turn away, even if he takes some anger out on you. He has to be very stressed right now. Good Luck
2006-11-27 00:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're already helping him by being there. be by his side. he should see that you are there for him. may not be right now, but he will see. he may see right now, but it's not a good time to think about more. definitely continue to be there. act like his mother. no pun. what i mean is you gotta think "what would a mom do if she saw her child down". sometimes that's all we need. someone to talk to, someone to give us a true sense of peace, someone real, etc.. keep doing what you do. PRAY for him. PRAY with him. you may even go to church together. we search so much, and look to everyone for answers or whatever, but we eventually realize clearly that God was/is/will be the answer the whole time. keep doing what you do.
2006-11-27 02:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by H W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do but offer help in any way and let him know that you'll be with him until it's all over. Also let him know how loved he is by all of his friends. I hope everything works out well!!
2006-11-27 00:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be kind, love him, pray for him, talk about it if he doesnt mind, if he does, then dont. just be there for him.
my best friend is dying from lung cancer and all i can do for her is be a good friend, love her and be there to support her. and talk with her.
2006-11-27 00:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check up on him dailie, if you know how to cook prepare a meal for him and his sister now and then, just be there for him in general.
2006-11-27 01:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAYER. ASK YOUR CHURCH TO PRAY FOR YOUR FRIENDS FAMILY. THE POWER OF PRAYER WORKS. IN THE MEANTIME, LET YOUR FRIEND KNOW THAT YOUR'E HERE FOR HIM NO MATTER WHAT.
2006-11-27 00:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there! Hold his hand! Pray with him too!
2006-11-27 00:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋