look i have a friend and she is really hot her name is Kristen and she likes me but she has a friend who likes me her name is Karli and i like her to but not as much as Kristen and karli keeps asking me question like who would u go out with me or her and i need help I listed there personalitys
Kristen- hot, smart, nice, outgoing, playful, funny
Karli- pretty, funny, cool, nice, and playful
but i still cant pick
2006-11-26 16:03:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, tight situation. I feel for you man.
To help you out, from a girls point of view, I would have to say Kristen. If this Karli girl is going to bug you all the time of who you would chose then, to me at least, she seems a bit desperate. That she is trying to get a forced answer from you right away where you end up making a bad, possibly good (I don't know these girls from a whole in the head) relationship choice.
If you are still wondering, think of this. Who do you feel more comfortable with and who do you think is more comfortable around you where they don't need their friends around to be flirty or fun.
I know you've most likely heard this a million times but it's great advice. You have to really think this through and pick the choice that will make you most happy. Don't give in to pressure to date one or the other cause not only will you hurt yourself but when you come to realize that and break it off, you will hurt the other one as well and that's not good. xP
Hoped that helped!
2006-11-26 16:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask out the person you actually want to date -- if that's anybody at all. If Karli asks you out, you should consider dating her, or at least going on one date with her. It may turn out that you like her more after you get to know her. If you truly are more interested in Kristen, then you should probably ask her out at some point, though be mindful of Karli's feelings. Don't hurt people when there isn't cause to. You can't have both, so make a decision.
2006-11-26 16:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Varlis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask them both out together just as a "hang out". Go skating or Christmas shopping at the mall. Keep it very casual. Show as much attention to one as the other. Just Friends. Then if you like one more than the other ask her out at a later time.But what ever you do, DON'T play one against the other trying to see who gets jealous. You will lose both as friends and cause them to dislike each other also. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 16:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you date either one of them its going to backfire since they both like you and they both are friends. Just be friends with both of them, you will have more fun and you will stay out of the drama.
2006-11-26 16:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by crissyk24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered the question "i like her to but not as much as Kristen"
2006-11-26 16:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by relish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like da next man said do em both dog!
2006-11-26 18:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the smart and outgoing-it seems more long term and lasting.
2006-11-26 16:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither, don't destroy your friendship with each of them. if you date even one of them things will never be the same again. keep em as friends and avoid the heartache. Better to be friends..i've been in too many of those type of situations.
2006-11-26 16:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should keep both of them in front and ask them questions just discuss and solve it out or u just be friends with them or u will be in trouble
2006-11-26 16:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're looking for.
Real Relationship - Kristen
Fun Time - Both of them.
2006-11-26 16:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋