Ok, so last week I was feeling down and depressed about finals. All the friends who I could talk to, to get my mind off things were unavailable. I e-mailed a girl who had told me in the past that I can call her anytime. I wrote that I was feeling down and that all the friends who I could talk to were unavailable. I asked politely if she could talk and promissed to keep everything positive. She wrote back that know she could not talk becaue she was too busy and that I was bummed out just like everyone else. I felt totally disappointed.
2006-11-26 15:59:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that sucks...you reached out and you had a door slammed in your face. I hope it doesn't stop you from reaching out again, other people will be receptive.
2006-11-26 16:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, and this seems to be a different take on the situation, she acted that way because you said that you had already tried to talk to everyone else or that they were busy etc, maybe she felt like she was a last resort, and that you don't normally consider her a friend. Not excusing her behaviour but that sounds like the problem. Maybe you could say you didn't mean to sound like you were only turning to her as a last resort.
2006-11-27 00:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Akasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said a girl from the past, It seems that this is the first time you made contact. How long ago was the offer made! At the time the offer was made, she may have had something romantic in mind! Sounds like you waited way to long, and thus the offer was voided.
2006-11-27 00:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant randomly expect this girl to drop everything for you. she probably was really busy. at the same time i totally think she was rude by saying that you were 'just bummed like everyone else'. especially after she had said that you could call her anytime.
it sucks but you got thro it.
2006-11-27 00:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that wasn't nice at all she sounds a bit selfish we all have problems but if we say we'll be there we should at least make an effort in the persons time of need. Not all women are this way. she sounds abit pissed off either with you or she's just a cold hearted biatch.
2006-11-27 00:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey man of glass dont get shatterreed...!!
man be happy....going down is not of your business...listen there are so many times when in our lives we have situations where...we are let down directly or indirectly by others...in this case ...you were down in directly...if your friends were not available...then they may be busy...tey did not do it with a purpose...
listen....now dont be so weak...i am not embrassing you just telling you as a friend...be calm and just remove all the past happened things off your mind...please...
cant do it then listen to some music or do something...
this is just a phase and will definetly go away...faster if you dont think of it...alrite...
see ya!!...
(if you can go on to airliners.net to get some refresh mind)
2006-11-27 00:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Spirit of ~^Spirituality^~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She clearly didn't actually mean or invitation. Either that, or she had a lot on her mind and was too preoccupied by her own depression/issues. I've had that happen to me before. Not everybody means it when they say they can be there for you. She was wrong to treat you that way, and it's unfortunate that it happened.
2006-11-27 00:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Varlis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats when you find out who your real friends are. i am with people and they go call me its usually just something people say but don't mean just the way it is. i am bummed myself as i started a group and the others act like if you don't post you should be out i have wrote on and off and its like i am writting myself and its dumb.so they are complaining when i feel like complaining about them . like i should delete them. and make it like a dairy or something .so i know about disappointment . i don't blame you its just the way it is hard to swallow
2006-11-27 00:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by terri e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is so weak if i said you could talk to me about anything i would mean it by the way if you need someone to talk to i'm here and i wont let you down
baby_g_is_my_name@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 00:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by JADE M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend was just saying so you would think they are a good friend. when someone says that, it's never true. i am sorry that you have no friends. talk to your parents . . . life's a b*tch sweetie
2006-11-27 00:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋