live or die?

Question

I like to race my car, and when I was in the middle of a race the other day I thought about killing myself. I havnt lead a very good life and I thought if i kill myself I could make it easier on myself and others. If I die, there isnt anyone who will miss me and I have no real reason to live so, why not? Life isnt that good anyway so what should I do? Im thinking life should end.

Answer 1

Life has its moments when everything is just f ucked up, and death just sounds like a easy way out, but to be honest i been through that and then i realized that my life is not that worthless i mean if you want if you try and believ in your self you can basically acomplish anything you want, why give up that chance before you find out. You read a book to get to the end, if you close it in the middle on purpose and don't ever get to finish it whats the point of reading. Life is just like that. It think you might just be deperessed a simple medicine can change the way you think. Go see a doctor.

Answer 2

I have had this tought run through my head for most of my life. It started back when i was about 12. I had the thought of taking my shotgun and putting it in my mouth and pulling the trigger. I played with the idea over the next 6 or 7 years. i would put the gun in my mouth with no bullets and pull the trigger to see what it felt like. One day i did this and had the feeling that i should stop at just the last second. I checked the gun and it was loaded. i had forgot to unload it the last time i went hunting.Something stopped me that day for a reason. I am now 32 and have a wonderful wife and 3 great kids a good job and a place to live in. My life is not perfect but it is what i make it. I am also not saying that i am the greatest guy in the world either because i sure do have my faults. I do think that i have affected everyone i have come into contact since that day and that i am here for a reason. I really think that you just need to live each day to it fullest and see where life takes you. you never know maybe somebody out there will need you. I also want you to know that i have never told anyone this before but for some reason i felt compelled to share with you. I still have those thoughts in the back of my head but i can control them knowing that i am here for a purpose. good luck and email me if you want to talk.

Answer 3

I wouldn't do that. you think your finnishing your life but your not really you'll have to do this all over again. and once around should be enouogh. keep that in mind when your thinking of a quick fix. causes theres no easy way out. You have to stick it out my dear. Lots of people have had a lousy life. but we keep going. you have to keep fighting a up hill battle. doesn't always get easier but you learn on the way . Try not to think of alll the sad things in your life. and think of the good things you do have and don't say there isn't any. You have your eye sight you can walk you can smell the roses .

Try to stay positive Your down right now but it will pass if you make this happen you won't have a chance to see a sunnier day. all bad things will pass and the sun will come out again.

If your feeling really depressed and weeks go by see a doctor and tell them so maybe you just need a little help to get over this depression your going through. I'm sorry that life is hard on you as it is on me too but thats not the answer. Keep plugging away i promise something better will come than what you have now. You just have to keep living okay. Meantime do something you like that brings you joy. and make a list of all the good things and traits you have and all the positives about your health etc..

This will pass but you have to be VERY STRONG. you can do this

Answer 4

I think Many of us have been there, I know I have. I found that I had a reason to live when I found out that there was a God and I started to search to find answers about him. I asked Jesus to come into my life and to change what he wanted in and about me. My life has not been the same since. Life is never perfect but I see things differently now and because of the way God has worked in my life I know he is there. He gave me forgivness and Grace by giving me Eternal life, and so I try to give back to him by doing my best to love others and help and love people. and when I have the chance I tell people like you what he has done in my life. I am not perfect and never will be. I make mistakes and struggle with things still. but I have recieved Salvation with the faith I placed in the fact that Jesus paid a penelty for the sins I have comitted.
It is interesting that you said you thought about killing yourself while driving, I did the same thing more then once. it is a scarry thought when you start trying to decide what you could hit that would be the least painful death.
Lastly If you think it is really true that no one would miss you if you died then you are ether wrong or you may need to find some one to give yourself to. not like Marry them but just a person. find a little old lady who needs some one to buy $50 in grocerys and help her out. I cant describe in words what it does for you and you will make close family fast and people who will be there for you as well.
If you want to talk more about it send me a message or talk to some one. a pastor or simular. Best Wishes.

Answer 5

Firstly you don't want to kill yourself because you would have already done so. asking the question is a cry for help and you can get it go see your doctor who may tell you its depression and you just need a pick me up.You have a problem that can be resolved by yourself if you choose. you race a car so join a club interact with people as you have on line join a friendship or dating agency there are people out there just like you and from all ages so instead of feeling sorry for yourself take on a new challenge in life because death is the ultimate you cant change it so try alternatives like my suggestions or think of some yourself. Life is a gift for Life keep it.

Answer 6

Ending your life isn't the answer. think of all the people you would end up hurting. Everyone your close to will miss you very much. I haven't had the best life either but I'm pushing through just to say I made another day. If it was your time to go then you would be dead by now but your not so please try to make the best of what you have right now and I hope it gets better for you later on in life.

Answer 7

You need to stop and think of why you are here. There is a reason, and even if you haven't figured out that reason yet, one day you will. I don't understand why people think that life is so horrible that they want to end it, life is given to you and you can live it to the fullest. You say that no one cares I am sure that there is someone out there in your life that WILL care, and will miss you alot. Please don't give up on life, let yourself be happy, and please seek help, I work in the medical field and when you have to ask the question should you live or die is a cry for help and you really don't want to go, you want someone to help you. So please go and get some counseling. I have learned that if you are positive in life positive things will happen. AND keep your head up, think of your friends family SOMEONE is going to miss the fact that you are not a part of their lives.

Answer 8

If i was to be politically correct, I would say seek help immediately. But i understand where your coming from. My personal opinion is to think long and hard before you take such a drastic step. It is your life, and i bet if you think about it there is at least one person out there that would miss you and be crushed by this. In the long run though it is a very personal choice, and the only advice i can honestly give you is to think about it long and hard before you act on it. If you feel counseling would help go for it, there are alot of good counselors out there!

Answer 9

No, get those terrible thoughts out of your head, there is always something to live for, the world is a beautiful place, you really need to get out there and look for it,why would it make it easier on others if you died, you can't tell me that they is no one out there for you. You need to get out there and my your life good, enjoy life, think about the people who's life is confined to a bed or can't walk, there are so many people who would just love to be able to work the the letter box..............enjoy racing your car, but race to win, not to die...........good luck and god bless, take care,

Answer 10

You don't have anything to live for?

Then get something to live for.

You have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. You have no reason to live...but no reason to die either. Why would you do that? If you believe in some form of afterlife, in most major religions suicide means you're going to hell. If you don't believe in an afterlife...just imagine. An eternity of...nothing. Not existing. You're just gone.That's an even /worse/ fate, in my opinion. And think how many botched suicide attempts there are...when people realize that they want to live, and would do anything to live, and realize how stupid they were to take their own lives...think of the grieving families of those who succeed. Had they known that people cared that much, would these people have killed themselves?

Go out and help people in need. Find something to do that makes you happy. Find /people/ who will make you happy.

Only you can make your life worth living.

May you find joy and meaning in life. God bless.