I was at the store with my dad today. When my "friend" who is extremly moody and insults me came up to me to say hi. I just said hi back and didnt really talk much to her. I sort of tried to ignore her because she is always obnoxious twords me and she knows how it makes me feel but still acts obnoxious twords me anyways. In other words treats me like I dont even have feelings. She just talked away to me like every thing is perfect between us. She just doesnt seem to get the fact that I really dont like her all that much! Im not trying to be rude, but its really annoying! How should I have acted twords her? When will she understand that i dont appreciate her being mean to me? And yet she just acts like I have no feelings and everything is ok. When I have even told her how I feel about it! Should I still ignore her?
2006-11-26 15:45:34 · 13 answers · asked by Krissa D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She probably acts that way b/c you do not speak up for yourself... i bet you keep everything in when you are angry or hurt instead of telling that person. Sometimes ppl tend to treat you like a doormat... like you dont even have feelings... well probably b/c you have never really voiced them...
Start speaking up and taking up for yourself.. when she is rude or rolls her eyes, say firmly, "Do you have a problem with something?" That should give her something to shutup about.
2006-11-26 15:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should break the friendship. You say you told her how you feel. maybe you didn't say it in a serious enough tone. You should treat her the same way she treats you. if she comes out and tells you something then all you have to do is tell her NOW YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL. If no good then you girls aren't really friends.friends know how to treat each other and thats not how a friend should treat another.
2006-11-26 23:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handled the situation right. just a hello and goodbye will safice. if you've already told her how it makes you feel and she continues to do this. she has no regards to your feelings. so your best to not hang out with her that often.
and just be polite with hello's and goodbyes. she should get the hint if not her loss.
2006-11-27 00:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah ignore her as much as possible, sooner of later, unless she's a comeplete bone head, she should catch on. If not you may just have to be straight with her and tell her whats what to her face.
2006-11-26 23:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already talked to her about it; I mean you told her directly that she in the past has been very mean to you and you do not appreciate it. If you have already done that and she continues to be mean, then you have to tell her directly not to speak to you and that you do not want to have anything to do with her.
2006-11-26 23:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh ive had that problem before! what i did was that i ignored her and then i just distanced my self from her for a while. After time passed, we are now civil with each other and its not that bad
2006-11-27 00:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her or call her and say , hey listen we cant be friends no more... imsick of the way u treat me sooo we are threw..... or somthing liek that .... i was in a same situation before like yours soo... jsut tell her striaght up !
2006-11-26 23:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her when she is capable of treating you with respect you will think about being her friend then
2006-11-26 23:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Julie J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really dont sound like a "friendship" mayybe u do need to be a bit rude about it and say "Look i dont like you stop talking to me"
2006-11-26 23:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by juss_qurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a "friend" like this - who needs enemies?
2006-11-26 23:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋