I was at a party the other night and blacked out at some point and came to a few hours later alone, fully clothed, in my own home. I did not drink very much, far less than usual, and so my blackout does not make any sense. The party was just down the street and I walked to the party and assume I walked home. I did a body check and have no bruises, bumps, or scratches on me. I have no reason to fear that I had sex or was raped, but I guess the missing two hours and abnormal blackout make me nervous. I am a virgin. My question is, if something had happened to me, would I know? Would I be sore, blood in my panties, strange discharges on my clothing, etc??? I physically and mentally feel no different then usual. Thanks.
2006-11-26 15:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by MissLARS 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I personally think you did not have sex. If you are a virgin and your hymen has never been torn, then yes, you should have some spotting and would probably be sore.
I think you're okay.
My motherly advise to you is to lay off the alcohol. If you drank less than normal and had a blackout - then perhaps you are developing an unusual reaction to alcohol - it can happen over time, even to people who have drank pretty regularly in the past.
If you are extremely concerned about having had sex (especially due to the blackout, there is in fact the possibility that you were slipped the date rape drug" then perhaps you should visit your gynecologist or your regular physician and have an exam done to check.
2006-11-26 15:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by MissyChele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion, I don't think you had sex or were raped. Chances are if you are a virgin you would more then likely feel sore down there or just some kind of pain. Now if it was the next day you woke up and felt fine then it would be hard to tell becuase that would give time for the soreness to go away but you said it was only for a couple hours.
Would you have blood in your panties you ask? Not necessairly... alot of girls do bleed when they lose their virginity but not all. I didn't bleed the first time I had sex. I didn't start bleeding until the 6th guy I slept with.
Strange discharges on your clothes? Well did you see any? Its completely possible that you could have some semen on your clothes if you did have sex. But if you didn't see any...
I think you're alright, hun. Relax and stop worrying becuase by the sound of it you didn't. Just cut back on the drinking and if you find that you are "blacking out" (*not* passing out) maybe you should see your doctor.
2006-11-26 17:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you would know. But as far as the blackout I would suggest getting a blood test IMMEDIATELY, as in tonite, to find out if you were drugged.
Many drugs come out of the blood in a matter of days so you may have already missed the chance to check out that possibility
2006-11-26 15:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you drank less than normal and still blacked out, then perhaps you were under the influence of date rape drugs? I'd suggest going to see the doctor--seriously.
Those drugs erase memory and the effects are amplified with alcohol.
Watch your drink, and don't drink out of an open container that you have not constantly been guarding (personally).
2006-11-26 15:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by polevaulter1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably still a virgin. You would know it if a man pushed his penis inside your vagina. Yes, there would have been blood. And you would have felt pain during the sex or at least the next morning when you woke up. Yeh, you would know it.
2006-11-27 05:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you would be sore if you if someone was to rape you. I also think that someone slipped something in your drink. Be careful about leaving your drinks laying around.
2006-11-26 15:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would probably feel sore & uncomfortable if anything had happened.
2006-11-26 15:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋