teens that don't want to have kids?

Question

why do you have sex if you don't want to have a child?
why not wait until marrige?

yes the can use a condom and birth controll pills but the don't why ?

i'm not saying having a child is wrong but if you don't want the child then way have sex?

i mean why

i mean why

Answer 1

Yes, teens who don't want to have kids - shouldn't have sex period. Hello! This is common sense. It's like okay - you want to make sure you'll never drown? Don't ever jump in the water! A lifejacket could save you - but maybe not. Teens who don't want various forms of VD - shouldn't have sex period. Teens who don't want to get addicted to sex and miss out on what true love really means shouldn't have sex until they are married. Sex is not an animal act - it's so much more than that and affects a person spiritually, mentally and emotionally in ways that can mess a person up for life when taken flippantly and used simply for a means of self gratification.

Answer 2

I'm a teenager so my resources are myself and friends.

we have sex because when we're going out with someone we get into the moment and that rush, it feels good. Simply put, some teenage girls and guys cant resist the feeling, so they give in.

Others, who I believe that make the right choice wait as long as they can, whether that is before or after marriage.

I'm going to be 14 in a few days, but when i had first turned 13 i was pretty much living the movie "Thirteen", if you want to learn more about teenage pregnancy and what we go through, watch the movie. If you're ever thinking about having children, you should watch it. My friend's mother actually MADE him watch it so she could point out their wrong desicions!!!!!!

I made some bad choices, but some very good ones at the same time. I'm a proud virgin aswell but I have gotten to the point where I have wanted to have sex but stopped myself.

Please, if you need to know more about teenagers, email me.

[e-mail] is my email. I'm mature for my age since I did and went through all the things that I did.

Thankyou!

Answer 3

What about the teens who wait until marriage and still don't want to have a child? Lots of married couples who don't want kids still have sex.

Answer 4

well the first time i had sex i feel for the guy we went out 1 1/2 year no sex and and during out last months i knew we was bout to break up so i thought that maybe if we had sex it would make it better and it didn't we broke up and i haven't had sex then cuz I'm so depressed i don't know what to do he said he loves me and after we had sex i was like i wasn't there


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Answer 5

Um,I've never had sex,thank you very much! Not all teens have sex,I am 16 and I plan on staying a virgin till at least 18.Just because you have sex does not mean you'll have a baby,if your safe.

Answer 6

If all teens waited until marriage there would be more healthy and lasting marriages and no illigitimate children and men would actually respect women more and not take them for just a piece of meat that can be had and tossed.

Answer 7

Plenty of people that are married dont want to have children either and they still have sex. I think anyone who can be safe in their sexuality should make their own choices.

Answer 8

because some girls think that by gettign pregnant they will keep their boyfriends longer. and then some ppl think that waiting till marriage to have sex is an old tradition

Answer 9

just use a condom, i mean you can just go to the $.99 cent store and get like a pack of 5 for a buck...actually less than a buck =)

Answer 10

I don't want to have kids, PERIOD! I'm also a virgin so this question doesn't really apply to me. But, I'm saving myself for the right person.