after reviewing several response's to my questions in past weeks?

Question

i guess my next step is this do i wait until the holiday is over or do i tell hime to go now.i know that hell use our6nyear old age leveragebut really i just want to move on.hes become so grumpy antisocial and isnt doing much more than feeling sorry for himself.he stated that he wouldnt contest the divorce,but i dont know if i can believe that,how does the process begin where to start and how long does it take to be over?we have a home that would have to be sold i couldnt do it for long on s.s.d.and who knows if hell ever get a job so what ever profit if made from the house will have to subsidize my monthy income.I just cant stomach the betrayel or broken promises anymore and need a little advice on where to go from here.i amfed up with the way he yells at our6 year old who is frightned by these explosion that happen at even shower time,not physicall,just im gonna it kind of pisses me off,i know every child has to learn boundries and im working very hard on it.

Answer 1

If you know in your heart this is truly over, the time to start is NOW. The holidays will be unpleasant either way but at least, with him out of the home, you and your 6 year old can have those days in relative peace.

If you require an attorney, then shop around by phone for the ones that will give a free consultation. Then you can choose the best "fit' for your situation.

If your stbx will follow thru with his agreement and sign an uncontested divorce (and you could be content with a no-fault one), then you may be able to download standard no-fault documents from your legal aid office.

I live in GA and I got mine that way. We had to include a signed property settlement and the acknowledgement of service form but that's it. If I knew your state I'd be happy to look for a source for you.

I also went to this law website- www.lawguru.com and rec'd free answers from family law attorneys. It helped.

The whole thing will only cost me filing fees, here about $80. Once he signs them and I give them to the superior court, it will take 31 days, plus a few more days due to holidays etc.

As to the income shortage (I can relate) maybe now is a good time to sell off any extra furniture or clutter if you haven't already done so. I sold broken gold jewelry I had laying around.

Once you get settled into a new place, you may consider babysitting, pet sitting, selling cosmetics from home just to add a little something to the pot. My next door neighbor does childrens parties and bakes fancy cakes. Maybe you are a wiz at that?

anyway- this is getting long but I did want to help you see the light at the end of the tunnel. You can do this!

Answer 2

The first thing that you need to do is to figure out where the true problem lies and where things went wrong.divorce can be very painful on the child and can be very costly and will take at least 6 months to completely get through it all and when children are involved,it is never really over.With Christmas coming up,it is not the best time to throw this on the child.Things sometimes sound terrible especially when marriage and children are involved but in reallity they are not near as bad as the seem.I would advise you both to get marriage counseling and try to solve the problem.He could be stressed out over something that you know nothing about which he is holding in and that only makes one have a very short tollerance for controlling tempers and makes one yell.Maybe he is crying out for help and you choose not to listen.I really do not know all the answers nor your particullar situation but I do know that many throw marriage away without utilizing all their options and giving it a chance.I also know that over half the divorces could be saved if the spouse would have just opened up and truly listened to their partner.Anxiety is a big disesease that may have and causes alot of problems between two people.One is anxious to get something accomplished and the other does not stand behind them and it seems that this particular thing is never going to get accomplished which causes hidden stress on one and causes one to explode and become irrate.this disease can be controoled but has to be diagnosed by a doctor first.The list goes on and on but not enough time to go into detail.Just please for the childss sake,give it a shot and try to work things out.

good luck and god bless you all

Answer 3

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