My best friend just had her boyfriend come home from Lousiana. He was gone for a year. She is soo happy to see him it feels like she is always with him and she just like forgot about me. But sometimes i find out that she hangs with her other friends... but of course not me. She never call me anymore and if i call her she is always busy..! I asked her what her problem was and she said that she thinks i want her boyfriend.? I dont get it. I think she is jealous or something. What do you think i should do about it? Things are just getting worse every day.
2006-11-26 14:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by bananaboo517 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is this boyfriend by chance jealous of your friendship with her ? it is possible he may have made something up so he could have her to himself...
I would let her know that best friends are there even when boyfriends come and go, tell her you care about her and how important it is to trust each other.
Let her also know you have no interest in hanging out with her boyfriend and u would be even more happy to just meet her in town at the mall or coffee shop.
I too have recently suffered the same fate with my best friend too.
Fortunately we have made it through stronger than ever she has been dealing with a very possessive boyfriend that she is getting ready to leave now.
good luck..
2006-11-26 14:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know why she's kinda butting you out of her life...she thinks you want her boyfriend. But you two need to talk and straighten things out. Then give her time, because true friends are forever, and a boyfriend can come and go(its unofficial). With time she'll come to realize how patient you were and always there for when she needed you. I know it's very discomforting to know that your friend is ignoring you in a way for some one else but as i said, give her time she'll come to her senses. Wish you the best of luck! =)
2006-11-26 15:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by SweetLatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just caught up in love... it will pass... until it does you should try to find some other friend to hang out with. If shes your best friend I'm sure she'll see how u can get by just fine without her and she will probably come back to you. Ask her if she wants to hang out with you ever again or just with her boyfriend. Hope this works out for you.
2006-11-26 14:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sky&&Jazz♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry yet i think of its his way of letting you realize he's no longer into you anymore even though, he's a jerk, sorry yet you look so sweat and he's ditching you thats 2 levels above dirt bag i observed you bypass out watch some video clips or bypass bowling with acquaintances have too plenty relaxing, wreck up with him, reason he doesnt appreciate you and you DESERVE extra effective! and flow on. stay existence to the fullest. dont waste a tear on any dumb boy in case you didnt see the grammy's watch on youtube miley and taylor quick's overall performance i'm 21 and it very nearly made me cry
2016-10-04 10:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like it's more her you want in a more friendly way. not too many people like a clingy friend. of course she's gonna want to spend time with the b/f if been away for a year. and its only natural people get jealous. maybe she thinks your hotter than her. or her b/f has been an idiot and said he wanted you to join for a 3some ...... just get over her. find a new friend
2006-11-26 14:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats odd? where did she get the idea from that you want her boyfriend? it sounds like she is insecure about her relationship with him and feels threatened by you somehow.
Are you a lot prettier than she is?
Just talk to her about it. Tell her you are in no way interested in her boyfriend but just miss spending time with her. Let her know also that it upsets you how she spends time with other friends just not you.
Good luck.
2006-11-26 14:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay let her go because if she thought of u as a friend she would not think like that. so move on and find new friends to hang wit.
2006-11-26 14:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to end the friendship, then that is her choice to make. You can't make someone be your friend. I know that good friends are hard to come by, but it doesn't sound like she was such a good friend.
2006-11-26 14:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! why does she think that? What a bunch carp too. You tell her you rather her friendship and that if she were any friend to you that she would make some best friend time.
The lustful winch!!!
2006-11-26 14:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh thats tough. i know how that feels. try to have a serious conversation with her, and tell her how you feel. if she stills acts the same way, she obviously doesnt care and thats not a healthy friendship.
2006-11-26 14:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋