Firstly, I understand how scared you must be. I'm 26 and if that happened to me right now I'd be freaked out too. I know it will be scary waiting for that test result but it's a good idea to get it done right now. The quicker you know the result the quicker you can start analysing your options. Also, if the test is negative, then the quicker you can stop worrying. If you have a family doctor, you can see or call him/her and they can't tell your parents anything. Or a local family planning clinic you could try calling. I think you need to speak to someone who can help you get through this. All the best.
2006-11-26 14:43:13
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answered by Aussie Chick 5
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Hi. Take a test to stop the worry. When a problem hits it seems like we cant cope, but we do and so will you. Your getting advice from here, brave you.
You would be surprised how many can't ask or don't ask for help and advice, your smart.
Do the test if you are its not the end of the world.
I had two children by the time I was 16, best thing I ever did. I'm 33 now and haven't missed anything.
Don't worry for worry's sake. DO a Test. Good Lk
2006-11-26 18:12:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Well...did you just recently start your birth control..?¿ Or did you miss your pill for a few days..?¿ B/c those things can make your period disappear, or be late...
Thats good that your b/f is willing to stay, but if u are, then u guys have a big responsibility...If i were in your position, I would take a test to calm down ur nerves...
I was 15 when I got pregnant, and like you I was scared and didnt know what to do, so I though about what I was going to do with a baby...I decided to keep her and her father did stay with me and he is still here to this day...I dont regret my baby, b/c i love her with all of my heart..!!
just take a test and if u are, then have fun with your baby, finish your education, and just make the best of it...It'll be okay, I promise...Some birth control isnt as effective as it should be, so its not your fault...Good Luck to u and ur b/f..!!
2006-11-26 14:54:52
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answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4
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WE can't help except to say A person reaps what they sow..........there are consequences to our actions.
If you had waited you wouldn't have this worry. Take the test. Don't hide it from your parents or his.
Don't abort ............two wrongs won't make a right!!! Either place with parents that will want a child or you will always be depending on help from parents unless your boyfriend will stick with you, marry you and support you both.
I hope you are mature because you will need maturity. I hope your boyfriend is a good person and not one that will leave like those on Maury. PRAY. Take one day at a time. I wish this could be a lesson to other couples. Some birth control pills can have major side effects and condoms are not full proof either.
2006-11-26 14:49:22
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answered by 4263 4
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Well, I wish you the best of luck not to be pregnant because the boyfriend might say he will be with you all the way, but very doubtful. It would be in your best interest to not have sex until you are married. If you say no to a boyfriend and he respects that, then stay with him; if he doesn't want anything to do with you anymore, then sex is all he wanted to begin with; which with most boys, sex is all they want. Respect your body honey. You missing your period may have something to do with the pill depending on how long you have been on it. Sometimes your periods will be irregular until it is in your system for several months. Hope this helps.
2006-11-26 14:48:44
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answered by wishful thinker 1
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Taking the pill is different for every woman, sometimes it can stop your period or just throw everything out of whack. The best thing to do is to go to the doctor and get a test, don't panic, the sooner you go to the doctors the better you'll feel, trust me.
Also having the support of your boyfriend is a great help, if you're nervous ask him if he'll go with you.
2006-11-26 14:45:39
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answered by Clare E 2
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you say you're pregnant. Wait until eventually you comprehend for particular. No element in beginning up that ought to of worms until eventually you're particular. once you comprehend that you're pregnant and under no circumstances using a doubt, tell them. The dad and the grand mom and father have a good to entice close. I desire he wasn't such an *** about this complete ingredient. i'm rather sorry that you're dealing with this. this can be a sturdy getting to entice close experience for you and anybody reading your question. do not have sex until eventually you're married, yet in case you do confirm to have sex then confirm this is with someone you've faith and love and that he loves you decrease back. you're a lot less probable to be left on you're own if the guy isn't an complete jerk.
2016-11-27 00:26:04
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answered by ? 3
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Your only 16 years old you need to find out if so.
There is no way to get around it you need to take the test, cuz you don't want to wait too long.
You might want to think about abortion. You need to think about your self at this point, WHAT IF he don't want the baby down the road from now, and you have to take care of the baby by your self. You don't want to go through life being a single mother.
Make sure you do what you have to do. Cuz you are going to have to a baby, and that's no joke.
2006-11-26 14:54:34
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answered by thinkpink4u101 2
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pls do a test as soon as you can.
was in your position before, am older now, but i remember the panic.
think about it this way, you might not be pregnant and then all this worry is for nothing.
but if you are the sooner you find out the better, sounds like you have a good b/f but as all sensible women know its upo to you what you do.
talk to your friends and an adult( if you know any sensible ones lol)
hon i hope you get the result you want
if you wanna talk go to my profile and message me
good luck
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2006-11-26 15:23:02
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answered by emboo 2
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Get a test done. If you can't afford a test or too scared to get one go to a Planned Parenthood center. They do pregnancy tests for free. The longer you wait to find out if you are pregnant the less options you have.
2006-11-26 14:44:34
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answered by Lisa P 2
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