2006-11-26 14:38:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i meant my wife
2006-11-26 15:07:08 · update #1
she probably is displaying pleasure towards your cross dressing as a display of support and acceptance for the man she loves not necessarily out of sexual turn on..
2006-11-26 14:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me see if I understand. You are doing the cross dressing for the pleasure of your wife...
You need to have a talk with your wife. Find out if she is sexually attracted to other women. Is she playing out a fantasy with you dressed as a woman.. If so, then she may want you to be more and more feminized. Ask her if she would like it if you could actually pass as a woman? If this is the case then you have a serious problem.
If on the only hand, you enjoy cross dressing and your wife thinks this is fun for her too, then you're both weird and made for each other.
2006-11-27 04:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I agree, it would be wrong for MY wife to like it when you cross-dressed. Actually, come to think of it . . . nah, I'd like it if she liked it, because I'd like it, too!
Point being- there's certainly nothing wrong with it. It doesn't make your wife a lesbian or even bisexual- it just makes her liking you when you cross-dress. And not only is that fine- that's awesome! It's a lot better than the way some wives 'tolerate' it for their crossdressing husbands.
Good luck!
2006-11-26 15:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't that be what you want?
I love men who cross dress, my ex husband is a transvestite and most of our sexual life was with him dressed. If your wife is turned on by it, then count your blessings.
However, just a piece of advice. Don't do it all the time. If she wanted to marry a woman, she would have. Make sure you seeing to her needs and not just to your own, or you will find yourself alone. Its gets old when it gets selfish.
2006-11-26 16:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite sure that my wife would pay you no attention what so ever, but then again, none of us knows our mates that well, do we? I will have to ask her if she likes it when you cross dress. Get back to you later on this.
2006-11-26 14:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an objective field, 'wrong' can have an actual meaning. But in the sense you're askng, it's too socially loaded to really have a solid meaning.
That is, some folks would say it's completely wrong, others would say it's completely right and still others would say it's not something that can be right or wrong.
I tend to go with the last one myself.
2006-11-26 15:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the reasons. Many wives DO like the sensitive, caring nature that crossdressing men seem to exhibit. Best answer I can come up with is 'boundries'.
Often, wives of crossdressers find themselves involuntary participants to their husband's fantasies.
Others seem to enjoy having a 'girlfriend' within their husband that they can relate with.
Open and honest communication is crucial -- maybe ask your wife WHY she likes it??
2006-11-28 04:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by gently_warped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think it would be wrong if MY wife (actually my husband) liked it when YOU crossdressed!
As for you, I honestly don't know, but whatever you do, keep it between the two of you and respect her privacy.
2006-11-26 14:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong for your to like it when you cross dress that is a good thing
2006-11-26 15:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by emilygurl21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my wife loves it we make lots of bets and if i she wins she makes me crossdress and if i win she goes nude the rest of the day my wife loves making me go out in public when i lose a bet.
She also thinks it's sexy when i wear her panties it really makes the night Alot better
2006-11-29 17:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋