and when did you find out that person was the right person
2006-11-26 14:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't "find out" that they are the right person, you have to know what you are looking for before you start looking. That's when you can compare what you've got with what you said you wanted. Otherwise, it's like going to the grocery store when you are hungry, you always come out with more than you barganed for and nothing that's all that good for you.
BTW, i've been married 5.5 years and I knew she was for me, we only dated 5 months, but if you aren't sure what you are looking for, I would not recommend getting married so soon.
2006-11-26 14:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 18. Next May will be our 10 years anniversary. We got married when I found out I was pregnant. I sometimes think that was the only reason why he married me. But we are still together after all these years and had 2 more kids. I found out he was the right person only after 2 months of dating him. We dated for 2 years and then got married. Hope this help!
2006-11-26 14:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~dat~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 2 1/2 years. And I knew he was right for me when I acted like the worst B*&^ in the world for no reason for 3 straight months (hormones) and at the end of it...He was still there. Good Luck
2006-11-26 14:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kia25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been happily married for a year and 2 months to my childhood sweetheart. (I'm 23, by the way.) We started really dating our senior year in high school (class of 2001) and we started seriously talking about spending our lives together after a year or so, I guess. We were engaged for two years before we actually married, as well. And we did live together for quite some time before tying the knot.
2006-11-26 14:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by S.D. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
43 years. I suspected he was the right person after about a year of dating in college, kept thinking he was the right one all along after we got married, but I just found out for sure recently. He told me he still loves me! And he's a terrific Grandpa!
2006-11-26 14:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been married for 7 1/2 years (together for 10 years). It was love at first site. When my grandfather passed away in 1998 I realized life was too short. I knew that I couldn't live without him and I couldn't see my life without him in it. He was the one and I was going to spend the rest of my life with him, have children with him (we have 2 year old twin boys) and grow old with him. He is my soulmate and fate brought us together.
2006-11-26 14:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by elprez14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we have been married for 15years and together for 19 dating that is and an 8 month engagement.
2006-11-26 14:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 3 years as of thee 29th of November and I knew he was the one for me about the first time I laid eyes on him then he completely one me over when he did not mind that on our first date my kids were home and we had to stay home with them and he ended up playing with them all night and did not even mind.
2006-11-26 14:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by SAHM and proud of it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
26 long long years, sorry to say he is not the right person
2006-11-26 14:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by g49joeybethl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been married 3 yrs , and i realized he was the one when he quit worrying about what other people thought and just focused on me, and us and realized that our relationship and what we think is all that matters. so basically, he grew up. (im black, my husband's white...highschool sweethearts) and just recently, my realization was renewed when i found out that i probably wouldnt be able to give him children, i thought he was gonna go nuts, but he told me as long as he has me, it doesnt matter.
2006-11-26 14:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋