y people think more about sex then love? plz help me!!!! tell me wat u know plz give me an advise or somthing like that!!! all i want is love and sex later u know wat i mean right? good. i was dating once wit a cute boy hansom and funy and all that then he wanted sex!!!! y boys r like that? and now that i'm dating wit this new boy he say he loves me but he wanted sex the first day!!! wat do u think about this? plz help me!!!!!!!
2006-11-26 14:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm not pregnat ok? i'm virgin and i'm just asking for an advise don't ge me wrong plz
2006-11-26 14:47:19 · update #1
ok i'm 19 and i don't want to have sex now i want to after i get marry ok? does sex is painful?
2006-11-26 14:58:52 · update #2
i want an answer an explanation not just both i need answers!!!!!
2006-11-26 15:05:06 · update #3
i want an answer an explanation not just "both" i need answers!!!!!
2006-11-26 15:05:31 · update #4
Choose the boys you date more carefully, the guys do think about sex all the time but it is up to you and don't do it if you don't want to.
2006-11-26 14:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a good question.Sex is important in a relationship just as the love and respect.Love,in my opinion,is the respect of the other,caring..it's the learning of the other.As you come to know the person more and more,it comes naturally..you wouldnt even ask the question do you want to have sex?? You will just feel natural to make love instead have sex.It's hard to find that especially guys.Saying I love you is not that straight forward,like I said it should come naturally without the question in your head.If you feel uncomfortable about it,talk about it,see and observe the reaction.This should be a hint.And most important when you are with someone dont always think about the worst that could happen.Saying you aint ready for that can also help in improving ties or worsening it but again you will get to know with whom you are dealing with.Sex or making love?? Cant be both.
Love works with making love,like I said love is respect and mutual understanding.Understanding the one you are with yields to deep pasionate love which includes making love.You dont have to be pushed or being asked several times.
Hope you get what I mean.
Take care and good luck.
2006-11-26 14:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kaushall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for people to lust. Some say that love is nothing but an illusion brought on by lust. Sex is not as important as some believe, but i am a firm believer in sex at the right time. It can bring two people closer, but only when the time is right. Build a foundation for love before having sex. If this boy says he loves you after one say he is trying to have sex for sex, not because he loves you. LOVE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WHEN DECIDING UPON SEX!
2006-11-26 14:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, love is more important. Sex is a way to express your true love to someone [hence sex after marriage], and it shouldn't be wasted on some sleazy guy. Not every boy / men cares about sex only. Sleazy guys who only desire sex go for the easy girls. I'm sure you'll find a right guy who is very respectful.
2006-11-26 14:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when it comes to long term relationships is both. but if you just me someone, what's most important is getting to know that person first. anyone can have sex but love is hard to get so if he doesn't love you or much worst you don't love him than is not worth it at all. see men think with their penis first then with their heads and of course love will be the last. so think with your head first and you wont be wrong. good luck:)
2006-11-26 14:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Itza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there is love, there will be sex and if it is.. its call 'make love' and not sex. Requesting for sex on the 1st day is far too ridiculous. I would suggest u to stop him for asking for u find it too irritated. Talk to him n tells him that u are not prepare yet. If he loves u, he can wait.. but, also understand at his end.. not too wait too long.. u have to judge it urself then.. =) not to worries
2006-11-26 15:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Its me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the most important thing in life is love no matter what. sex will always be here but love is very hard to find.
2006-11-26 14:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats really confusing....but some boys can love u and still want to have sex but some just want u for sex....so u really need to find out if there just using u or if they really love u.
2006-11-26 14:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Pretty Eyes*~<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
condom is the most important thing in life love & sex...
pregnant is worse sex & love...
2006-11-26 14:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are too immature to know what LOVE really is, so if you are having SEX, then use a condom, but DON"T GET PREGNANT, we don't need more idiots in this world.
On second thought, DON"T HAVE SEX EITHER!
2006-11-26 14:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋