I remarried and my husband doesn't like me being with my kids.
He doesn't like to do much but be at home.
He doesn't like it if I go out to play tennis, on the girls league.
He doesn't like to go to the movies....
He says I'm happy to be just home.
Which was ok with me until, he started wanting to do nothing, except watch tv, didn't want me to see my kids, and started paying little attention to me.
Don't know what to do
2006-11-26 14:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by redford 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave the old geezee and live,not pine away with him.
2006-11-26 14:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a husband, not an anchor, and he can be replaced........ If he likes to stay home, and you are okay with that, then he'd better get an attitude adjustment.... You're probably a neat lady (why did you marry this guy --- what he this possissive before?) and you have a life. I'm older than you, and going with a prince (younger than me!!, and I hope to marry him as well, but hey, I have a life too, and there is an old saying ....lead or follow but get out of the way.... well, you aren't asking him to do either, but geez, he wants you to stop enjoying what you like?????
2006-11-26 22:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the advise in the world will be just that - you know just how much you are going to put u with. To comprise your children and yourself for the now husband will eventually lead you to hard feelings. If you choose to JUST sit and watch TV then so be it, it is your choice.-- But r
remember there is a price that will go with that. Husbands will come and go but family (children are forever). The choice is pretty clear to me, sometimes we cannot see the trees for the forest.
2006-11-26 22:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, don't settle now for some guy who isn't interested in making you happy more than himself. If you enjoy doing thos things keeping doing them. If it makes you feel guilty then you are old enough to realize it's time to move on. What advice would you give your kids in the same situation???
2006-11-26 22:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by kc4frks1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it's OK to failed and failed again.But the next time you want to look for a partner,try to study him in dept before making commitment.Failing is a lesson for all of us.Why not just concentrate on the kids and have a easy and calm everyday life.
2006-11-26 22:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be forward but any man who doesn't want you to spend time with your kids is very selfish. It doesn't sound like you are very happy and the answers may already be within you. Look deep inside and you will find your answer. Ask yourself, are you happy, appreciated and loved. Are you feeling important and do I want to spend the rest of my time doing this? Look deep, your know your own answers. Face it head on.
2006-11-26 22:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you being with your kids? Why not? Thats crazy.
It sounds like you need to let him know how unhappy you are. I hope he listens to you.
He has no right to not let you see your kids and it sounds like you want to go out and do more.
Don't let this man prevent you from liking yourself and enjoying your life.
Talk to him about this.
Good luck.
2006-11-26 22:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't think this one through very well did you, Tell him you are not ready to sit and do nothing as you are never sure when you are finished. That you are accustomed to visiting your kids, and that you must have physical activities. he is welcome to join or not , but regardless you are going to continue
2006-11-26 22:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he tells you the things that he doesn't like.... tell him all the things you do not like ..."dear, I don't like you watching TV, dear, I don't want you in the house doing nothing... dear....)
2006-11-26 22:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he a homebody before you married him? If so, then you walked into this relationship with your eyes open.
2006-11-26 22:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋