He left about 2 weeks ago and moved in with a 19 year old coworker, I am 22 he is 24. Sometimes he is very nice to me, sometimes he is very cold. He rarely ever calls for the kids and has not taken them anywhere since moving out. he called today to say he was coming over tomorrow to see the kids, he sounded very happy. I want him back so bad and DO NOT even tell me I shouldn't want him, I do, "To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it" I can forgive him. This is totally out of character for him and even his family is very shocked. I have told him I am happy for him and I am happy too. What can I do to make a very good impression on him tomorrow? Should I ignore him or be very talkative and friendly? What is the best way to salvage this, I will not beg, plead, or even mention our relationship-that is up to him, but I want to make a GOOD lasting impression, so he will be thinking about me when he goes home.
2006-11-26 14:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I may be young, but I am far from immature, I had to grow up fast and I have no regrets on that. I know what I want in my life. I am a very independant person, I do not want him back because I need him because I certainly do NOT need any man, I want him back because I love him.
2006-11-26 14:21:10 · update #1
you are young and don know what you want if you want him thats your business im not going to judge you but if you don want people to say certain things to you then you should have not asked a question
2006-11-26 14:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are going about this the wrong way remember he left you for a other women even if you do get him back what make you think he not going to do this again to you ounce a player always a player you are fooling your self i know you want some body to love you and the your kids but not him he know he can have you any time he want all he has to do is to call you and you go running to him you dont want a relationship like this you need a man who love you and well stand bye you no matter what he is only 24 he is still very young and so are you he not ready to be try down not to many people i know of this age is you need to cool your jets.and what every happen let it happen but dont give in to him this is what he wants you to do.this is why he is showing up at your door because some thing happen in his other relationship that the only reason he is coming over to see you dont be a dummy and fall for it you well only have a broken heart at the end good luck
2006-11-26 14:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back with him but since it is not the case for you, just don't ignore him. Be talkative and such. You can try to show him indirectly that you want him and that you are much worth than that 19 year old brat. Afterwards, try to contact him more often to get in touch with him.
goodluck
2006-11-26 14:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be graceful and dont be too talkative. Dont ask about his new g/f. Just be sweet to the kids.
2006-11-26 14:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself don't try to impress him let him impress you
2006-11-26 14:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by mystical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋