Not the computer. It is only a tool to facilitate something that was going to happen anyway.
Top complaints by the ladies about guys on computers.
When they talk to other women. If they are cybering or talking relationship stuff they are cheating and the lady has an urgent need to dump the guy. The computer is not at fault because they are doing the same thing any chance they get in real life too. Only the super shy or those in really small towns will do that on the computer and not in RL. Even if they were shy or you did live in a small town would you really want to be hooked up with somebody who had a wandering eye? Who wasn't happy to start with?
Porn - There's no difference between the images on the computer and the stack of mags guys used to hide from their gf/wife. Porn is NOT an attack on a woman. It's natural for a guy to want to look at it, even if they are in a relationship. They are not comparing you to the women in the pics. If they do then they've lost touch with reality and have deeper issues. In short get over it. Unless the guy is spending time with his porn instead of you (not 24 hours a day is not healthy for many people to spend together. So the time not with you is relitive) it's actually good for the relationship if he occasionally looks at a dirty pic.
Games and other obsessions - The shop, the local bar, out working on the car, fixing the house. Computer based obsessions can actually be better than the alternates LOL. At least the lights still work if they are playing Doom instead of fixing things that are not broken. It's not a compitition. Guys tend to obsess about things and if it wasn't the computer it'd be something else. If you took every computer in the world and threw them in the ocean they wouldn't be spending more time with you. Guys are like that. Just how we are. We enjoy martial challenges, so killing that last villian on that last level can easily become an obsession. Fixing that last bug in software he is writing or surfing the web in search of detailed research on a topic he's interested in. That's just normal guy behavior but on a computer instead of in a garage.
So yes. Many marraiges have ended a bit sooner because it's easier to catch a guy with a wandering eye on a computer and often the lady catches him before he's consumated such interests, the computer itself didn't end the relationship. I was once in a smal SCA group that got the same kind of blame. The culture was flirty and the singles in the group found any weak relationship and preyed on it. Any social gathering be it work, a club or an activity is also an opportunity. The computer is just a bigger and faster means to do the same thing. Ladies are just as bad. Been through four relationships where the lady was still married and living with her husband when I met her. All but one did not tell me about the husband until weeks of talk, flirt and phone calls took place. Rather disconcerting to find out after so much has passed.
2006-11-26 14:52:46
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answered by draciron 7
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None, If a couple breaks up over the computer, they have some other serious problems.
In turn, it has brought many couples together and communication is important both within and outside the marriage.
2006-11-26 14:18:18
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answered by Nort 6
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that wide block of textual content is rather not difficulty-free to ascertain, i hit upon it very not difficulty-free to is wise of maximum of it. That a lady continues to be in a wedding ceremony would not advise that she is chuffed and loves her husband, she's in simple terms toughing it out because this is outstanding accessible. Crass yet real. think about been in love all those years yet it really is all you may comprehend for particular, you may't talk for her emotions. this is totally probable that her love dwindled and grew to develop into into straightforward through the years. this is probable that your spouse ought to have left in spite of the indisputable fact that if it hadn't been for the computing gadget. some women people one way or the different "sacrifice" what they prefer and favor to augment the little ones and shelter their husband, and at the same time as the little ones are previous adequate to make it on their own the lady understand that there is area for herself in her existence back. many females people %. up a pastime, study something new or dig deeper into an pastime they continually had and that is adequate for them to experience free back. different women people are somewhat blinded and they blame the husband for each little thing it really is incorrect of their lives and as they initiate to seek for themselves additionally they hit upon a clean guy. it gained't restore their issue in spite of the indisputable fact that this is nonetheless the way they pick to move.
2016-11-27 00:22:35
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answered by cave 4
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1,2,3 or maybe more.
2006-11-26 14:15:47
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answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5
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