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My mom and I got into a big fight and she said I can no longer get alowence and I cant do anything on the computer but play games which means I cant go on yahoo or anything like that. I told her I was going to leave in the middle of the night and she will never see me again. She got upset and said I cant go to the library. I know that I shouldnt of given her choices like a brat. How can I apologize to her (what should I say) I know I should say I am sorry but whatelse? I need answers quick.

2006-11-26 13:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Why are you on the computer than? Anyway, you need to go to your mom and apologize to her, just simply explain that you are sorry for being a brat, and for what you said. And explain that your apology is in no way expecting to be excused from your punishment. Take the punishment as you should. You did something wrong that got her to this point. And apologize for that also. Talk to your mom, she is not your enemy, she loves you and wants what is best for you. Keep that in mind the next time you get angry and want to say very harsh things, she will always be the only one that will always be there for you no matter what. She loves you and only wants the best for you. Good luck and God bless****

2006-11-26 13:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

You obviously hurt your mom, especially by saying that you'll leave and she'll never see you again. That is probably the worst type of thing you could say to your mom. First of all, let her cool off. Don't go and apologize right now because she won't want to hear it. For now, just do as she says. When you're both ready to talk, apologize, but promise you will make a change. Whatever you got in the fight about, let her know that you are willing to compromise and you just want to make her happy. (Hopefully you truly do!)

2006-11-26 13:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Go to your mom right now and tell her you are sorry, and that you don't know all the right things to say right now but you will try to figure it out. But for right now I'm sorry. You are very brave person to admit you were wrong this time. You are doing the right thing. Remember one of the most important things in life is pick your words carefully. Everyone makes mistakes. Not everyone has the heart to fix them like you. Your mom will be very pleased with you when you talk to her, now! She may still be pissed, just let it go she will get over it. Go now, Good Luck

2006-11-26 13:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky: 2 · 0 0

Tell her you are sorry for being a teenager.You don't mean to be MEAN, but you have a lot of hormones going on and you don't know how to handle your feelings, your moods, your anything!
Don't threaten to a parent you are leaving during night...She will not be able to sleep from now on for fear you will do that some time...Trust me...I know this is fact.....She will fear that you will do this and wind up dead on the side of road........
If you are not teen yet, then hormones are still working on you.
You may want to tell Mom that you will do dishes everynight after supper.(only takes 10-15 minutes anyway)
Learn how to make her coffee and have some ready for her sometime.....or just ask her to forgive her wonderful, favorite child for being duh ?(insert silly word) write her an apology and put it on her pillow..!..(.Good luck hon! ) help Mom out more!
Next time you two need to talk ask her if she talks, you will listen without interupting, and will she listen when you talk without interrupting?

2006-11-26 14:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0 0

You have learned that once you say things you cannot take the words back...ever! You might try leaving a note on her pillow asking for some down time with her, alone. When you say you are sorry, you must mean it or else it will not work.

2006-11-26 13:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 1 0

definetly aplogizing is the first step... tell her you were just frustrated with the fight and you said things that you really didnt mean and that you really dont wanna run away...tell her you love her and that apart of your punishment from the computer you will TRY to help around the house a lil bit...show her that you love her and that you wont say stuff like that again to hurt her..she'll always love you for what you said but make her understand how you feel about her...

(been there done that stuff like what i just said helped my relationship with my mom..)

2006-11-26 13:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by myownlittlelonlyworld 2 · 0 0

When your mom is sitting down put your arms around her and say[i'm sorry,I know i've said some things that might have hurt you,but i didn't mean any of it can you forgive me .

2006-11-26 13:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just make sure that its in the nicest way!

2006-11-26 13:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by AD 2 · 0 2

i'm sorry iluv u and i'll neva do it again and plz 4giv me i luv u.

2006-11-26 13:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by anOnymOus 2 · 0 1

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