why do men look at women when they are married?

Question

marrage problems

ok if i tell him a dont like it for him not to look at women in front of me then he just laughs and that hurts me even more

Answer 1

because they are married...not dead. I look at men all the time. That doesn't make me a cheater.

Answer 2

If looking is a problem to you, I think you have a real problem. Men look at women because God made a difference in the sexes. Women are the most beautiful things on earth. Men will always look. Look but don't touch. Give your love to only one woman. These are the things that count.

Answer 3

Men are hardwired in the brain to look at women. No man can change that. They can only modify their behavior so their wife doesn't see them do it. Why make him lie?

Accept his looking. Make a game of it. Find out which women he things are attractive and try to guess which he does. rate women on a 1-10 with him. Laugh about it. Truth is better than lies.

Answer 4

Because they have boobs! Some men enjoy looking at the female body. At times this means nothing more than admiration! If you begin to feel you can have other women, however, then put your eyes back in your head! Stay away from tempting situations and keep your wife's picture on your desk and in your wallet! Never miss a chance to show off family photos. Get together with other couples and have sex dates with your wife! Keep thing steamy at home and you will not need to look elsewhere!

Answer 5

I like your question. I have the same problems with my spouse sometimes. He, instead of laughing at me,lies and says he wasn't looking at no girl. That perturbs me very much especially when I watched him look at her. I know this doesn't make things better but I started lookin at other men just to show him how it felt. He didn't like it neither! I say just give them a dose of their own medicine.

Answer 6

looking is a natural thing,.. I know this is not what you really wanting to hear but its the truth... look at it like this lets say you have a car lets say its a muscles car like a 69 camero .. this car is your baby, you don't even drive it, you just preserve its beauty, by keeping it garage kept.. Now, you wouldn't take nothing and no amount of money for your car, but, you still look at other cars
maybe that wasn't such a good way to put it...sorry, men are very visual beings, weather it women, cars , sports, I look at other men , But that doesn't mean I want them , I love my hubby and wouldn't have another, but I like to look at other men , sometimes it makes me love him even more when I think to myself this man picked me!! over all these other lady's ( he likes to look too) he picked me!! He is gonna look , thats nothing you can change But your special because he picked you:)

Answer 7

There's looking just to look, and looking with lust and longing. Which is he doing? Ask yourself (and ask him!) why. Maybe it's just a habit he's finding it hard to break. If you keep him from panting after other women, though, be ready to catch him sneaking the glances he used to make openly. Once wired that way, it's VERY hard for a guy to change. E-mail me for more details and more insights into why men do what they do, at the e-address in my profile, thanks. Good luck!

Answer 8

Men always look at other women, as long as they only look. Ask yourself this question? Do you never look at other men and think phwoooaaaar? Cos i do, lol

Answer 9

because it is natural for them to look. a man or woman would be lying if they said they never noticed a member of the opposite sex that they thought was attractive. as long as there is not intent to cheat don't worry about them looking.

Answer 10

Make it a point to look at man in front of him even if you don't want to do it.He needs a little taste of his own medicine see how he likes it.

Answer 11

its in mens nature to look, same as us women. sometimes i dont like it, but i know that its normal, i do the same. now if its down right gawking the girl down, thats another story....