They both denied it then come to find out its true. you really loved this person and did everything in the world for them. both of them know how strongly you feel for your partner but neither of them act like it is a big deal.
2006-11-26 13:38:55 · 24 answers · asked by shytype96 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would find a new girl/boy friend and a new friend. Just remember, if this person cheated on you once they'll do it again. Write both of them off and call yourself lucky to have found out the truth about them. There are plenty of people in the world who will treat you right.
2006-11-26 13:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by tas211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well l know one thing for certain. That person would certainly be a very very EX friend. Ofcourse they would deny it. I am yet to find a person who would openly tell you of an affair especially if as you say they don't think it was a big deal. Well you just let them know to you it was a HUGE deal . How long have you been with your partner ? It is entirely up to you what you do but if it was me, unless your partner was willing to admit that he / she made a terrible mistake and was sorry for their wrong doing l personally don't think l could forgive them. After all they did the wrong thing with no thought of your feelings so now they have to live with it. Perhaps they deserve each other. You do what makes you happy whether it be with that person or someone new. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-26 14:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big deal. They have betrayed your trust, love, and friendship. I would separate myself from the both of them. Your partner and best friend are disgusting to put it mildly. There are decent people in the world but these two are on the lower scale of the food chain of humankind
2006-11-26 13:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by John E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend. The guy's a lost cause at this point. Find a new guy. Once they cheat, you're always gonna feel incomplete. Then It starts a nasty chain reaction. You must be strong. Wait a while before you begin again. Give your heart a chance to heal from this hurt. Okay?
2006-11-26 13:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the following if I was in your shoes:
1. Break up with your man. If he cheated on you once, he will cheat on you again.
2. Tell your best friend that her friendship is no longer wanted or needed.
3. Forgive them (but you don't have to tell them that). This will help you move on.
4. Forgive yourself. In a situation like this, they will try to blame you. It's not your fault.
Good luck, I'm sorry this happened to you.
2006-11-26 13:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say goodbye to the partner. Once a cheater always a cheater---and a liar to boot. As for the "best" friend, I'd say find some more friends...any so-so friend is better than this best WORST friend ever. This buddy/friend lied to you and now thinks you are dumb enough to let it go! Ha! Prove them wrong you are worth so much more!
2006-11-26 13:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by nirekelly27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make it okay this time, for either of them, you are really only hurting yourself and setting yourself up for future hurts. You will find another man and you will make another best friend. It's obvious that neither one of them actually don't measure up to the place you have put them in your life. I strongly suggest to forgive them, you don't need to carry that weight, let them do it. Forgive and move on, life is too short.
2006-11-26 13:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look for a new partner and best friend. But, before doing that, try to figure out how you got snookered into being friends with people who treat you that way so that it doesn't happen again.
2006-11-26 13:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The part about acting like it's not a big deal would seal it for me. The end for both of them- and that's being nice bout it!
2006-11-26 13:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, You have to decide for yourself what you are going to do with regards to the situation but in answer to your question, I personally would dump both of them, and for good...they both broke your trust, and that kind of breach of trust can't be repaired (as far as I am concerned) don't reward their selfish, unethical, and 'bad' behavior by trying to work it out or sticking around, you, and we all deserve better than that...
2006-11-26 13:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋