2006-11-26 13:32:52 · 14 answers · asked by jatoia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
2006-11-26 13:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Fotf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yes, but im not trying to sound like an ***, im saying this in the nicest way
if he hurts you, then you should not go back to him, because it will only end up hurting you more or getting into a whole lot of problems
its hard i know cause you love him and like him and want to be with him if only he didnt hurt you all the time. but thats something that wont change if thats him. sometimes relationships seem like they would work perfectly if the other person would just stop doing a certain thing. but thats what shows to you that you should not continue going out with him because he's not the one
it will be hard to get over him, no one ever said thats easy, it might take time, so try not going out w/ someone for a while, just have fun with your friends, hang out, keep yourself occupied w/ something other than guys for a while and things will work themselves out
stick in there
2006-11-26 13:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem. You think you could be broken and if you fix yourself he will like you.
1. You are not broken, He is.
2. You can't change him. Only he can change himself.
3. He obviously does not love you as much as you love him.
4. Exes are ex for a reason.
5. You deserve better
6. You deserve better
7 You deserve better
8 You teach people how you should be treated. If they refuse to comply, don't go around them. Why? You deserve better!
9. You are not alone. Seek a support group. There are many cities that have battered women programs. Find one and stick with it. Why? You deserve Better!
10. Kids tend to repeat the mistakes of their parents in relationships. If you don't do it for yourself, do it for the future of your kids. Why? You deserve Better and They deserve Better!
11. But you love him.... Ok... Love him from afar.. Why? YOU Deserve Better!
2006-11-26 13:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep Running Back To You
2016-10-14 02:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love that is what is wrong but you will get strong and only when you have truley had enough will you not take him back. he is not going to change you need to know that, but you can change by not putting up with that anymore, you deserve better then him so try to find someone else even while you are back with him and that way it could be a little easier to leave him for good.
2006-11-26 13:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by angel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its pretty common for most people to do that. theres nothing wrong with you, but something is wrong with him. he sees you as his toy. im sorry to say that but its true. he knows he can treat you like ****, and you still will come back so therefore he's lost all respect for you. once that happen you're nothing but a toy to him.
i know its not easy to leave someone you really love no matter hw badly they treat you, thrust me i have been in the same situation. i told myself "if he not treating me right then he does love me, if he hurts me every chance he get, then he does not love me. i deserve better." thats how i moved on, thats why im with a wonderful man today who always put me first.
if you want respect ,you will not let him back in your life. if you dont want respect then you can keep on going back to him, and let him treat you like a pet.
good luck.
2006-11-26 13:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he hurting you physically or emotionally? Either way, it is abusive. You need to move on. Would you want to bring a child into this situation? Get out while the getting is good. If you stay, it will get worse. God forbid that you or an innocent child ( his creations) should suffer like this.
2006-11-26 13:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sex is that good huh?? I think every woman has made that mistake at least once.. But you know what they say fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.. I know this my sound cruel but it's your own fault - you have to have the will power to not go back.. If he's the one that approaches you tell him what he's done to hurt you, it helps more to say it out loud and to his face than to keep it bottled up, and it also may help you get over it - saying it out loud makes it real! Girl stand up for yourself - you don't deserve his **** - your better than that. Confront the bastard and tell him that your never going back to him b/c you deserve better - and you have to believe it yourself.. Good luck girl!!
2006-11-26 13:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes ur retarded. on the serious note the reason u keep goin back to him is because u r insecure wit urself and u are afraid to be alone. and another reason is because you dont know how to handle a nice guy or even if u would be able to. trust me i know from experiance. i used to be the same way and then i found him and didnt know how to act.
2006-11-26 14:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called love. I'm going through the same thing. Mine keeps hurting me and hurting me and I'm about to tell him I cant do it anymore. I love him but I don't like feeling like this and I know you don't neither. You need to do what you think is best and I know it will hurt but he needs to know your not going to take that anymore. And maybe he wont hurt you anymore after he realize your not playen his game anymore Good Luck.
2006-11-26 13:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋