Me&my baby daddy hve a 1month old. whenever we get in an argument over the phone he hangs up on me and won't answer when i call back over and over. is that a sign that I dnt need to be with him? does he care?
2006-11-26 13:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by calie j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You know that is not acceptable as a father. He will probably wont be there for you and your child, but why ask, everyone who answered this question knows your going to stay with him.(until he dumps you)Why would you get pregnant by someone who doesn't care about you. You can say he does all you want but he doesn't. Your better off leaving him and keeping out of your baby's life.
2006-11-26 14:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by wombizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hangs up he might need some time to cool down. When you call him over and over you aren't going to fix the problem - you will only irritate him. Wait until you see him in person and talk to him. Try not to yell - even if he is completely wrong. Yelling at him will only make him defensive and when he is defensive he won't listen to what you have to say. Talk to him about how hanging up on you makes you feel like he doesn't care/love you/etc. Then listen to what he has to say no matter what. Having a new baby is stressful and all couples argue. What matters is what you are arguing about. It's hard to answer on whether or not you should be with him with just the fact that he hangs up on you.
2006-11-26 22:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your young, not trying to be funny, but the two of you need to get along, cause you have a baby and the two of you will have to deal with each other until that child turns 18, maybe he doesn't answer because he needs time to cool off, give him his space, trust me he'll call you once he has had time to think. Having a kid makes you grow up real fast, especially the mother,the father needs time to catch up, they aren't as fast as we are . Good Luck to you, and keep your head up no matter what happen between you and your baby daddy.
2006-11-26 21:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same trouble with my baby's dad, so I marched over to his place and demamded that he talk to me! I told him that if he was going to stupid and childish i wouldnt let him be a father to our son or he can take some responsibility for the child! Tell him he needs to try to be decent to you for the sake of the child! If that doesnt work, just be the best mom you can be and forget about the baby not having a father like him.
2006-11-26 21:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously its a big sign that u don't need to b together. U have to focus on ur son and not on him. Everything is much bigger then the two of u now. Give him an ultimatum to get his sh** together or to go about his business. Make sure to tell him no matter if u guys are not together he still has to b there for his baby.
2006-11-26 21:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about control! He don't care what you have to say! He says what he feels is necessary and hangs up to let you get madder and madder, and then accepts your calls when he thinks you are ready to give in and accept his point of view! Trust me it only gets worse! I say flip the script; say what you got to say and hang up on him. Be strong don't give in!!! If he don't get the hint and change, find a good man there out there I promise. Don't settle life is too short!
2006-11-26 22:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by queenlandry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fighting that much why dont you just give each other space...quit trying to call him back when he hangs up and maybe hell see your not hanging on every word hes saying. Besides you have a baby now rotate your life around them...goodluck to you sweetie!
2006-11-26 21:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have a child now and your child is your main priority .....
forget about the father he ain't no good .... just get on with raising your child ... the mans a loser !!
2006-11-26 21:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋