Was out tonight at a gay club the day before my 26th Birthday and was waiting on my own for a couple of my friends to arrive. Went to the toilet, came back to where I was sitting and was informed by the bouncer that apparently I'd been seen taking drugs in the bogs and would I leave the club? i've never taken drugs in my life - all i was doing was applying some vaseline (to my lips!). they searched me, obviously found nothing on me and said i could go back in the club, but i was so pissed off i went home - and what's especially annoying is that some of my mates were off their heads on god knows what and they're still quite happily there having a good night and i'm back at home on bloody answers! not quite sure what the question is here, but had to get it off my chest! wouldn't you be pissed off?! what should I do? (if anything?!)
2006-11-26 13:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by calebolly 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sure would be pissed off, but i'd be even more pissed off if some numpty put something in my drink.
Perhaps the bouncer needed glasses, but he was doing his job.
Dont worry about it too much mate x
2006-11-26 13:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would be pissed off too, but unfortunately, the bouncers were just doing their job. You could write to the club and express your annoyance and you might get some free entry tickets by way of apology, but they did offer to let you back in, and it was your choice not to go (I would have done the same as you, incidentally). Just forget about it - it's nearly Christmas :o)
2006-11-26 21:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a while I would be a bit angry knowing they are incorrect, but they did acknowledge that they were wrong and allowed you to enter. They made a simple mistake any human, you, me, or parents, anyone can make. They need to take precautious because they don't know you, if they think you had something on you, they need to check you out, just as you would if you had your own bar/club or whatever. Now if they have some sort of grudge on you, which it appears that they don't since did they let you back in, then thats another story.
2006-11-26 21:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok here is the deal, you were rubbing vaseline on your lips, which guys dont often do at a club. But yes i accept you are gay. Anyways...many people doing cocaine also like to rub it on their gums and i am assuming they thought you were doing this. At least they offered to allow you back in, its not often bouncers would do that. Most are right bastards.
2006-11-26 21:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off as well. I would of stayed...
But it is not worth your aggravation.
Do nothing about it. They were just doing their job.
Too bad it had to be you. But I am sure that they do get the right guys once in a while which is great!
So try to calm down and do something that you enjoy.
2006-11-26 21:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by tanyasiv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be pissed off but it sounds like they made a mistake and tried to correct it. Nobody is perfect and they are just trying to keep their club clean.
2006-11-26 21:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone would be pissed. Never go back to that club again.
A letter to the club would help too.
You may get an apology. But don't bet on it.
2006-11-26 21:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The bouncers just wanted to feel you up and they needed an excuse to do it. Are you gay yourself or were you just going with gay friends to see what it was like?
2006-11-26 21:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm...birthday shopping to marrow!
now have a nice bath, movie/ food/ go bed - call other friends / someone else..
um.. d'know??? its up to you : )
other suggestions could include:
u could call them l8r. or they call u?
/have a birthday spa day! /treat yourself to something unusual : )
/plan a party l8r??
ow yeah,... Happy 26th Birthday : )
2006-11-26 21:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
soz,2 long @ this time of night. try 2moz noon!
bettter frame of mind and sober!
2006-11-26 21:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Welshchick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋