I am a really fun and awsone person, the people at my new school will not give me a chance, they all suck and are sooooooooo mean!!! I need help to either have them like me for who i am or how i can fit in!!! HELP!!!!
2006-11-26 13:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by actingqueen100 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know how old you are, but I know how you feel. They don't all hate you, they just don't know you.
Ask if you can be involved in some of their activities, or whatever they do. If they don't accept you, then forget them! You probably won't be friends with them in a few years anyway. Just go with things and be yourself! The worst thing you could do is sell yourself out and be like them if that's not YOU.
Don't worry so much, making good friends takes time!!! :) Good Luck!
2006-11-26 13:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like re-living 7th grade all over again! The same thing happend too me. I was the new girl, i was very shy and never did anything wrong, I was a good kid. But then, the teasing started, and everyday i woke up for school i cried. I did not want to go at all. My mom felt so bad for me, that she made me stay out of school alot which affected my grades.
One day, I got really tierd of it and started too defend myself, they didnt like that so they messed with me more. Not only that but they were the popular kids too and that made it even worst because they had about 66 kids behind them! I mean what can one person do againts 66 people? I had no friends at all, i sat alone everyday, and sometimes hid in the bathroom after lunch. All i know is that if you know your a good person, why should you care if the hole school hates you?
And please, dont act or change yourself for anyone! If they dont like the way you are, then who gives a ****, you know your awesome, so why care what they say? its better to be independent and do you, than too do what everone elsa is doing. and people see who you really are, youll have friends too. when summer vacation comes, i bet you might look back on everything your going through and laugh. thats what i did. Anyway, you hang in there, dont let the haters drag you down with them.
2006-11-26 15:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Echo♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i just started a new school 3 months ago and i sat by myself at lunch people hated me and something has changed. I dont know why but all the sudden i have friends. Have no clue how it happend. Try dressing and acting like the popular girls.
2006-11-27 06:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to try to fit in just be your self and soon they will come around you and want to know about you just give them time and while they are trying to be mean just over look that because you are bigger then that. Think once you are going to be different and change in your life soon they will look up to you.
2006-11-26 13:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're in a class find someone else who seems a little out of place, maybe they're going through the same thing you are. I wouldn't totally change yourself for them though, try and be yourself to the best of your ability!
2006-11-26 16:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a group of kids starts being mean, say,"You haven't even tooken the chance to get to know me. It's hard enough moving schools & losing friends without people here that won't even get to know me. I'm trying with all that I can to get people to understand that I'm not that bad once you get to know me. I can't show them that unless they get to know me, though." If there's a kid or kids that hasn't been mean to you, talk to them, get to know them.
2006-11-26 13:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved round a lot when i was young i went to 3 diff schools in year 7 it was hard but just be yourself and stand up for yourself dont take no crap and they will learn to respect you for being strong. oh and try and get a boys attention then you will get to no his friends it always worked for me. good look
2006-11-26 13:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by hayleyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't hate you ,they just don't know you.If they all suck why do you want to be friends with them anyway.the way to fit in is to join clubs that you like or find interesting,an always be nice to the underdogs, you got to give love to get love.
2006-11-26 13:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a school group
2006-11-26 13:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats only in your imagination, once they stop regarding you as the new kid, you'll make tons of friends
2006-11-26 19:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋