2006-11-26 13:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when my bf cheated on me he would be really nice to me sometimes for no reason and i later found out it was when his guilt hit.
he cut his hair and went shopping for new clothes (changed his look a bit)
started telling many stories about this "old friend" of his
was very suspicious of me and always thought i was cheating on him.
2006-11-26 13:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's see...he's not in the mood (allot), he smells like cheap women perfume...lipstick on the collar...the only way to really know is to either catch him if he says he's not and you feel it in your gut that he is, he probably is(unless you are paranoid, or you had a previous relationship where the guy cheated on you). It's hard to say not knowing all of the circumstances. If you guys are not both in agreement that you are not to date anyone else, try showing up at his place on unschedule nights wearing a trench coat and a nice teddy underneath. That way if you do catch him there with someone else, he can't say that you were checking up on him. If he comes to the door and is alone, then it will be a wonderful surprise for you both.
2006-11-26 21:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question! However it depends greatly on the individual!
Not all guys are the same! While we share some common qualities, each individual mind is unique! It is likewise with women!
Thus, to answer your question ... presuming YOU are of sound mind (No Offense meant) ... If you suspect he is cheating (and you know him very well), then it is likely true. But not always!
Personally, I would recommend that whatever benifits he is receiving from you, be discontinued until you are absolutely positive. Even then, I would still recommend tests for STD's (if you are in that sort of relationship).
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-11-26 21:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is so easy... That men won't take her a public places that will be an extreme hiding from another ones to find out etc... Cell phones that went he goes to see one turn of the cell Phone etc... Too many easy ways to tell...I am an expert on finding out if that person is just dating me or not...Well women's know it is like a six sense I guess
2006-11-26 21:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he suddenly changes himself such as clothes and hair and he wasn't like this before, he has certainly changed for someone and it's not you. You can check his email, check his cell for text messages or a number that he has dialed a lot, follow him, does your man smell like someone else when he comes home?
2006-11-26 21:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to do a little private eye work, you can usually play like you dont care and maybe mention that you are dating outside the relationship and then maybe he will come clean?
good luck
2006-11-26 21:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by angel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask or if you are even questioning his integrity, then you need to look at your relationship. If you feel that something isn't right, go with your intuition. Mine has never let me down.
2006-11-26 21:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by D'Mi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him around without his knowledge...play detective.
2006-11-26 21:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already have doubts... Use your gut feeling. Usually it never fails.
2006-11-26 21:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The minute he opens his mouth, he is lying...
2006-11-26 21:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋