2006-11-26 13:11:19 · 39 answers · asked by turtle girl 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Leaping blindly and wholeheartedly is the only way to go. I prefer to let chemistry and kismet work their magic. I have never been head over heels in caution.
2006-11-26 16:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a turtle, slow and steady wins the race. There's a difference between being cautious and playing hard to get. Being cautious before doing something you may regret later isn't like playing hard to get where you already know what you want you just don't the other person to know just yet. And if you just leap into love it may not be reciprocated. But if you have that type of personality that you can totally open your heart to someone without being hurt or taken advantage of you are really a special person.
2006-11-26 14:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kind of person you are. I know some people that are never cautious or hard to get, jump in full steam and end up either very happy or scaring the other person away. But they know they are this way and are prepared to deal with whatever happens.
Other people wisely are cautious, and take their time, and deal with whatever happens in that way. Do what makes you happy!
2006-11-26 13:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by little1missy1234 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to be cautious because whoever you're with may change when the relationship gets stronger. NEVER leap! It's a horrible move.. it rushes things. rushing = totally NOT cool!
2006-11-26 13:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by jessica29406 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I too, have always been one to jump in with both feet, only to find myself drowning in a sea of dispair! When I have played hard to get, I also have lost. I don't think it's in the "Playing".. But this time I want to take OFF the "Rose Colored Glasses " and keep my EYES WIDE OPEN!! I SAW the troubles before, and Chose to look away, BAD MISTAKE!! LOOK and LOOK HARD! There's no way to be sorry for that!!
2006-11-26 13:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by the23FireKeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAUTIOUS... take it from someone who has been very apt to jump right in and be hurt every time. The man I am with now understood my hesitation in the beginning and allowed me to take things at my pace. If it werent for that I may have run away in the beginning for fear of being hurt again. I believe it is because of this that he and I are still so in love after a year and a half.
If the person you are speaking is worth the time, they will allow you to take YOUR time.
Be good to yourself, and not reckless... you deserve to be happy and not to be caught in a nightmare.
2006-11-26 13:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've taken that leap 3 times! From now on I'm going to be cautious!..........:)
2006-11-27 14:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leaped into the arms of love, and feel very safe, but that was my own experience. Each person in the relationship will bring their own elements, and those are what the cues must be taken from.
2006-11-26 13:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by munesliver 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to do one or the other? Playing "hard to get" is silly & transparent. Leaping into love is silly, too!
Keep your heart open with hand close to the door knob.
2006-11-26 13:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say watch before you leap...no do not play games just keep a watch on your head and heart...if you do that then you will take things easy and gradually...you need to be friends first then let it grow from there...
2006-11-26 13:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋