I was on holidays and a gay guy in our group said he was interested in my girlfriend. My girlfriend said don't worry he is gay and is dangerous. Why would she say he was dangerous? Then she said look at my body, what guy would be interested in me, I was so why would she say that? I think this gay was insecure and wanted her to help him solve his problems but he was always near her the whole week of our holidays. My girlfriend was into reiki and likes to help people but I was pissed off and she said I didn't trust her. We had our own bedroom and so did he and the other guests in our group. She also said I had a negative ego.
Can't win, I was just jealous I guess for no reason, I guess there shouldn't of been a reason but I wanted a little attention from her also. Her last live in, who took off from her, ended up being gay later in the relationship, dormant for awhile I guess, but she had his kid. This is why her and gays puzzle me and I question my own trust in her.
2006-11-26 13:07:20 · 6 answers · asked by iceblue_purple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off, there's a lot of immaturity floating around here - most likely because none of you have had enough living to accumulate the coping skills to handle such a complex issue. To say that gay men want to have sex with straight men is ignorant and bigoted. Most gay men are not attracted to straight men because franky, straight machismo is a damn ugly look on a guy. I'd rather eat spaghetti. She probably said he was dangerous because "all gays have AIDS", which is also ignorance, but you'd be surprised how many straight people actually believe that. Gay guys are attracted to straight women for the same reason straight women are attracted to gay guys - neither pose a threat to the other. They are easy and fun to be with without having to worry about them wanting in your pants. As for trust, you obviously don't trust her, and you are also feeling a little insecure yourself for thinking a gay guy is going to take your place in your girlfriend's life. Jealousy has many very ugly faces. My advice is, drop the pretense, drop the girlfriend, go out and live and learn, and when you are a little more mature, get back into the dating scene with someone who has already grown up.
2006-11-28 04:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by deLaParre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay people do want to have sex with a willing promiscuous woman, but they don't prefer them to other men. Gay men want sex with straight men. This is a troubling situation for other men, and makes them uncomfortable about being around gay men. Maybe this is why your boyfriends have some anger toward gays.
2006-11-26 13:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could walk in the shoes of someone that is going through or has gone through transition, you wouldn't make light of such matters. It's a long, hard, often psychologically and emotionally painful process that often involves a lot of loss and suffering on the path to being ourselves. I don't find it the least bit funny when someone makes a mockery of it.
2016-03-29 10:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be...LOL...Some women connect well with gay people. they can smell a gay person within miles...Dont act too paranoid. I have gay friends and prefer to hang out with them more than my straight girl friends. they are fun fun fun....so dont worry about it okay?
2006-11-26 13:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to be bi too
2006-11-28 14:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible
2006-11-26 13:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋