he talks to me about mostlyeverything. I'm worried for him. HE thinks that just because he has bad thoughts it makes him a bad person. He is nota bad person.He is a very sweet boy.
What can i do to help him?
2006-11-26 13:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most all of us have negative thoughts at one time or another. It is quite normal. Some of us go to an extreme in either direction. Thus, modern day science has created medicine to help us stay more at ease with our thoughts and emotions.
My advice is to seek professional advice! There is nothing wrong with this! It is widely accepted in todays society!
It is good for the both of you you that he is comfortable talking with you about his feelings. It is (IMHO) also somewhat rare to have this communication in this day between parent and child!
Me thinks a job well done thus far! Continue on!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-11-26 13:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of bad thoughts you need to find out first. Then is he having these thoughts on a regular basis? It may be that he is feeling some guilt over something. Does he have a good adult male role model? If so, perhaps he would feel more comfprtable opening up to him. If you determine that it really is bothering him you might suggest some joint counseling. Luck to you!
2006-11-26 21:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should work out the origin of the bad thoughts and find some info on obessive/compulsive type stuff to see if you think that could be an issue
2006-11-26 21:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out exactly what he consider bad and if you cant handle it talk to your pastor or school councilor and get him some help before it turn you bad. it is goo that he is reaching out NOW before it is too late do not take this lightly act now and good luck
2006-11-26 21:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by fancy4not 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray 4 him cast out any demonic spirits and rely on God cuz he will definitley take those thoughts away.
2006-11-26 21:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by anOnymOus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reassure him everyday and encourage him to join sports and hang out with his friends and have fun cause he's only 10....Tell him its part of growing up...basically just tell him you love him :-)
2006-11-26 21:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....what sortuv"bad thoughts" is he having?
2006-11-26 21:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by wolfgang4862 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋