Sould i be nervous if tomarrow @ skool i will be a loner because all of mi (so called "friends") turned on me?

Question

Please answer!!! i need your opinions to get me through the day 2 marrow!!!! Thanxx ! <3**

Answer 1

Ok, here's what you do. I know nothing about what you did or why you think everyone turned on you. Hopefully it wasn't anything too bad like killing a sack full of puppies. Assuming no puppies were hurt by you... Everyone will be expecting you to come in with your head hung low and acting meek and feeling very low...Right? Number one, don't give them that satisfaction. Go in strong, confident, and just a freaken happy as you can possibly be, because you know they are all going to be wondering what the h3ll happened to make you so cheerful. Odds are that at least one of your "friends" isn't really that mad at you. This will draw them out. They might ask you why you are so cheerful. There are many answers you could give, but I would just smile and say... "My dad won the lottery!" Just kidding. Smile and say "Spite" that's it, spite.

Answer 2

I've been the loner plenty of times. I've had my fair share of being alone. If your so-called "friends" turn on you, then that's THEIR problem, not yours. Don't acknowledge them. Let your friends go on & be immature if that's what they want to do, but don't let it affect you in any way. Ignore them. You don't have to be a loner, anyways. Talk to more people, sit by another group at lunch...etc. If you don't want to get out & make new friends, then be your own best friend. I had to do it & I'm glad I did 'cuz it made me a stronger person. I'm 11 & I'm in the 6th Grade at my middle school. I'm right in the years of my life where the whole "clique" thing is going on. It hurts to be your own best friend, but sometimes, you have no choice. Stick up for yourself & show them that you may be friendless, but that doesn't mean you're giving up. Good luck.

Answer 3

ok well i had a friend turn on me so i dont see y u should care if they left u there not real friends and drop them u should look around and ull find new friends its crazy that u will find friends if u look there is always this saying there is no such things as strangers jsut friends u havent met yet and i think thats right but u can get through it and u dont have to be nervous just talk to different people then u usually talk to

Answer 4

My friend, true friends are friends always regardless. If you friends are easily influenced by others or circumstances to turn against you then I must question the integrity of the friendship not you. Some people make a living of getting others to question themselves which puts them at odds and gives them power over you.

It is imperative to learn the meaning of true friendship and distinguise friends from acquintances. Many acquintances come into our lives for a variety of reasons. Perhaps mostly because we share interest or some type of commond denominator. Sharing interest or sharing simular circumstances does not mean friendship necessarily.

Nervous? If they are going to make attempts to defame your character at school with your peers then you might have to answer with an intelligent response not reprisals. Nervous because of what could happen?

Let me say this hard fact, you as an individual can not control everything people say or do, however, you can control how you respond to situations. People can say mean things about you or even do bad things to you, but you must develop a strong self confidence within yourself and STOP giving your power over to others.

The power of allowing those individuals to make you fearful or nervous enough to affect your day to day living. As long as you think with there negative interest in mind, you give them power over you. You have the greatest POWER in your possession, the power to choose how you should RESPOND to others in your environment.

Build relationships with people that are empowering and supportive. Yes, you can find those individuals that are more focused at school. If they are not at your school then perhaps outside of school, but make the effort. Stop wasting your time with people that are energy suckers. Find more positive energy from others, if they are not positive then don't spend too much time around them.

Get focused on you! Make yourself more attractive internally as well as physically as a person. Its about interpersonal skills, and dealing with people. Those same kids in your school, you will encounter throughout your life. Some of those types either grow up or stay the same or become more sophisticated in your ways or strategies. In other words, they step up there game.

Step your game up, become a more powerful person. Its not about power over others, power over you. Build your reputation as a strong intelligent person that can not be broken by others!

Answer 5

u came 2 this world all alone. u made ur so called friend in ur school. why worry about u losing them. u can never be alone because of losing these friends. Pray to god, he is always with u.

U have a shirt which is grown shorter because of ur growth. u may wear a couple of time after that u have to throw or give it to someone.

Be broad in ur thinking, such so-called friends are worth losing.

Answer 6

I am in the same situation right now i'm not going to get into details about what happened but Just eat lunch by yourself and don't let them talk trash to you.

Answer 7

If you did nothing to make them do that...or something really small...go and take the time tommorrow to make NEW real friends...they are not ur friends if they just turn on you randomly...
put in some details and then I could give you a better answer

Answer 8

i dont really think you should be nervous, theres probably other kids in your school that you can hangout with, and just because your friends turned on you doesnt mean you cant hangout with them, try and fix it, see what happens.