What do you think about couples swinging? I saw a program about three weeks ago about couples swinging and having swinger's club parties etc... At first I was in awe but the more i watched the more it seems interesting. Is it a sin for married couples to swing if both are in consent of it? I liked the fact that no one was judging anyone on their body size, color or IQ. How do you all feel about swinging and swingers having private sex parties? Would you engage or have you? If so, how did you feel about it.
2006-11-26 13:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by farharringsingslia 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Well, I'm not big on Swinging at all. I got invited to some few years ago.
My personally view of it, usually that only one party in the marriage is into swinging, and the other one just put up with it. In my case, the guy ask me if I would go forth with it. I told him no, and he say his wife is the one who is going it and have no problem with it. My point was I will have a problem with it! Regardless of his wife way of life and his way of life as he has to become a swinger in return.
You then wonder, why the hell do they get married in the first place. If they are to be sleeping around, why not do it when they are single? instead of being in a marriage?
That is my view on this.
2006-11-26 13:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by jane c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is so lots greater to it than how long have you ever been at the same time. Swinging can the two be a solid factor or an extremely undesirable factor... the identifying factor is how sturdy is your relationship. Is your communique solid adequate which you the two experience you may refer to a minimum of one yet another approximately something and each little thing? Do you the two believe one yet another thoroughly? Are there any jealousy subjects? If there is any loss of believe or jealousy subjects, do no longer do it. artwork those subjects out first. If no longer and additionally you will say little question that your communique is A1 and swinging is a few thing which you the two choose to do and additionally you will agree on what your targets are as they pertain to swinging and what your regulations would be, then decide for it and function relaxing.
2016-12-13 14:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sin but in the eyes of people who have no right to judge. Since there is no god, the only sin is made up by man.
Swinging seems to be the ultimate way to enjoy sex without guilt while maintaining a steady partner. There are 31 flavors of ice cream, why not try more than one type of sex.
2006-11-26 13:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the concept of having several girls in bed with me is a typical male fantasy, I doubt I would ever want to do it.
Even with the consent of both, having sex outside of the bounds of marriage IS a sin. (Of course, it is up in the air as to whether or not having multiple spouses is a sin. I haven't found anything in the bible that says I can't have more than one wife.)
As far as contracting STDs, well, the shows I've seen involve people who only have their parties with a specific group. So if all are clean, there shouldn't be an issue.
I've seen shows with people of all races involved in that lifestyle.
2006-11-26 13:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Uther Aurelianus 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
We've done it and enjoyed it thoroughly, and we have had no conflicts with our conscience, morals or religion. If, however, you feel that it is a sin, then it is a sin, and you should not engage in it. Neither should you engage in it with another person/couple who is obviously at conflict with him/her/themsleves in this way. That is what we consider putting a stumbling block in another's way. We won't willingly be a party to harming another's relationship with God or to damaging themselves psychologically, emotionally or spiritually.
2006-11-26 16:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your married in a relationship and both parties are willing and give their consent i don't see the problem .... each to their own i say !!
live and let live !!
not my thang, but i am not gonna judge anyone that does it !!
2006-11-26 13:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Alot of risks could come from you doing something like that like STDs or one of the partners wants to cheat wth one of the other couples partner. I dont like it and I would never do it, But if that what they want to do thats them but I just hope they are careful and dont just invite any and everyone to these parties cause you never know about people.
2006-11-26 13:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People from every walk of life do it.
You would be amazed at the variety of economical back-grouds these people have.
Color, religion, ethnicity, income have NOTHING to do with it.
Sex is just sex, unless you get emotionally involved.
If you are wise enough to partake, then do so.
2006-11-26 13:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by BigTip$ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Thorn, your statement about not seeing people of color swinging is stupid. I have been swinging for decades, MOSTLY with people of color.
I feel fine about it.
2006-11-26 13:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Swinging is for children.
Responsible adults do not go looking outside their relationship. If you want to, why are you in a relationship in the first place?
Hope you like playing Russian roulette with STD's, cos they're part of the equation.
Don't catch nothing a shot can't cure.
2006-11-26 13:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋