I had this best friend from gr.9 till the beginning of gr.11. We still share the same friends and we see each other everyday at school. Just before school started this yaer (gr.11) i broke up with my bf, who was and is a friend of mine. He took the breakup hard, and my ex-bestfriend (whos boyfriend is my ex-bfs best friend) kinda ditched me to go talk to my ex-bf. So i kinda got mad, but got over it, sent her an email saying that i was mad at her and that she should talk to me. So she says sorry and blah blah but the next day she doesnt talk much and it seem slike shes not even trying. It feels like she doesnt even want to be my friend. I talk to her boyfriend so many times about it hoping he would talk to her but it hasnt changed anything. She says i dont talk to her when she talks to me which is true because i dont feel lke talking to someone who doesnt even want to be my friend. I dont know what to do. I guess i could give in and say sorry and lets forget it or lve her & find others
2006-11-26 12:40:06 · 3 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
help needed!
2006-11-26 12:40:48 · update #1
And its not really about ditching me for my ex-bf thing anymore. Im more mad about the fact that she would say sorry a million times to someone else who gets mad at her for nothing, but doesnt even bother ot say a heartful sorry to me. She just said, I am sorry and i dont know what else to say when i sent her this email, explaining.
2006-11-26 12:50:47 · update #2
sometimes if you really value a friendship and especially one that you had since 9th grade, you need to give in. best friends are hard to come by
2006-11-26 12:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So first of all if she is really your best friend you need to forgive her and let it go . remember guys come and go alot before you find the "one" but a good friend is hard to find . I think from what you said that she was trying to be a good friend to everybody she told you sorry but she must have thought that you were still mad at her so she didn't talk to you . Just let it go its just a guy . She wants to be your friend sometimes you just have to trust people
2006-11-26 20:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by british 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter whose fault it is. what matters really is, if you value your friendship with her. Just forget what happened and say sorry. I know you miss her.
2006-11-26 20:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋