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What do you do to overcome the feeling of missing him/her?

2006-11-26 12:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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Yes very much. Its difficult to overcome the absence of a loved one. When death separates you from a person that you loved passionately, it is painful.
But Life goes on, and i have two children that I love very much. I don't want to be depressed, because there are certain things that can't be changed, and I have to accept them.

2006-11-26 12:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0 0

I miss my father sometimes, but it's more what we didn't do together and the conversations we'll never have that I mourn. I don't think I'll ever overcome that feeling, I just have to feel it and continue living life as it is. In some ways the sorrow deepens the appreciation I have for life and makes me want to care more for other people. To actually get on with life, I try to take things one day at a time.

2006-11-26 13:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Holly R 6 · 0 0

Do we every really forget someone from the past? I know lately I have been thinking of certain people in my life in the past and I don't know why? Is it a man? Well the best way to get over a man, is to move on and start seeing other men. A friend, well, I have forgotten a few or they have forgotten me, but I still think about them and the good times we had. Sorry If I didn't answer your question

2006-11-26 12:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you have to get on with your life. If there isnt a way to see or be with that person you have to accept that this is the way things are. The fact is people lose each other in many ways even when a spouse or family member dies. You can think of this person from the past and instead of being upset that you never see them, be happy that you did have some time with them. I know this from experience.

2006-11-26 12:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by bluelady 3 · 0 0

I miss someone whom I don't think I ever spoke to.
We knew each other's existence as we used to wait together, but never mad really had a conversation.
I still miss that person though like I would a dear friend. There was something really familar about that person, and I know I will miss them forever. I always do wonder about them, and wonder what would have happened if I first initiated communication. but I guess you just have to think logically. Was nothing more than a stranger who i was curious about.

2006-11-26 12:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You don't. Though you move on to save face and "live" because life does go on. There is still that lingering in your heart for that someone. Some people come into your life and have such an amazing, unexplainable impact on it and it leaves you in a daze. Making you ask yourself "Whats going on?" You just have to deal granted you will love another some day question is will you love that person as much as you did the 1st? Will your heart allow you to let someone else in? I guess I will always have feelings for my 1st boyfriend, because he was the 1st man I ever loved. Though others said they loved me and I said it back I never really felt it; you know deep down in my soul I never felt it like I felt it w/ my 1st boyfriend. When he said it, it made me melt and come alive; s**** ready to take on the world even. Today he is w/ someone else and I cope I "live" because life goes on. In the back of my mind I still daydream about us you know those days when we lived beautifully young deeply in love. I know it will never come true again. So you can miss that person and you can wish for that person but if its meant to be it will rekindle again. You'll probably never overcome that mssing them feeling, but know that you can still move on and live your life with it.

I'll pray for you and me tonight.

2006-11-26 12:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nellybean 2 · 0 0

Yes I still miss someone. In HS I dated a guy that I thought I would love forever. We fought like cats and dogs. We went back broke up and went back again. Until I did something really bad. I slept with his brother. Well that was over 35 yrs ago, and I would still like to see him again. So I never got over him. So R.C. I love you and I'm sorry. Tedi

2006-11-26 12:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0 0

Yes, I miss both my parents. Both of them died within the past two years. The holidays so far have been hard but I keep thinking the holidays won't last forever and the pain I have won't either. Exercise helps me and eating chocolate peanuts.

2006-11-26 12:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Stretch 1 · 0 0

i miss a couple of my closest friends...but i also have an army of people that ive cut out of my life lol...but yea u just miss that person until u meet someone else...

2006-11-26 20:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Spiderpig 3 · 0 0

Sometimes I allow myself to mourn. Most of the time it's a sadness that is deep within me... it will never go away until I breathe my last breath. C'est la vie.

2006-11-26 12:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0 0

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