2006-11-26 12:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm a straight person, but from what i've heard, you shouldn't do that until you are completely comfortable with doing it. don't feel too rushed! and it depends on how old you are, many people struggle with their sexuality for a while before discovering what they really are. but whatever that is, make sure you are ready for it and accept yourself before you tell other people. and try to only tell people who will accept it when you first come out.
2006-11-26 12:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would hate for your family and friends not to know the real you...know that those that love you will not stop loving you for choosing to share this part of your life with them...
There will definitely be an adjustment timeframe for those people around you...but you will feel freer and better when you do...
There is no way to do it...there is no textbook....take a deep breath and do it.....
2006-11-26 20:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by pimiento463 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Open the door, take one step at a time. Close the door behind you. Don't blurt it out. If people ask you, then tell them you are gay. If they don't ask, no need to be yelling it out.
2006-11-26 20:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just come out. seriously, if ur family is the type that is against gays and lesbians, then u should wait until u move out of the house so that u can avoid conflict with your parents.
2006-11-26 20:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell them i'm in the same thing ur in gurl but i haven't came out yet but i will when i turn 18 but how old are u ? messge me to let me know how old are u ok then i will tell u if it's ok or not to tell
2006-11-27 21:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by GIGGLEZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your young enough that you have to rely on support from your parents I'd wait. unless you have very open parents then it shouldn't be a problem . just tell them who you are
2006-11-26 21:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ron N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres the deal. if your gay just tell ppl be proud of yourself its nothing to be ashamed of. im sure you are a beautiful person and you deserve to be happy in life, which is someting you can never be if you hide who you truly are.
2006-11-26 20:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the door and run! And never listen to stupid advice.
2006-11-26 20:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't. Be straight, like normal people such as I.
2006-11-26 20:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by No, You. 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋