The best way to know if she likes you is to find out.
You can get one of your friends to ask, or bring it up lightly in conversation, or ask in a game (get her to play truth or dare or something of the like and ask), or just ask her yourself, but have an excuse in case she says no (e.g. "*insert name* told me you like me. Is this true?"), or ask her on im or an email- much less akward.
The worse thing that will happen is she will reject you and you will move on- but she will be very flattered that you like her (I know I and the rest of the female population) would be flattered. Also, at this age it is harder to be rejected than at, lets say, 20. But to improve your chances maybe ask when not that many people are around.
But the first thing to do would be to figure out if she can date or is single- again, maybe ask a friend to find out, although that can get a bit messy at 13.
One option I hate to bring up is that she might be messing with you- this might be if you're quiet or shy or ugly or unpopular. So maybe consider if she is in your league (aka if she is an older popular girl and you are a younger nerd she might not want to date you.
But good luck, whatever happens
2006-11-26 12:50:42
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answered by Ashley 3
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oh the eternal dilema. Do you speak to her, find out she doesn't like you, feel a fool, ruin any chance of friendship and embarrass yourself, or do you not speak to her and never know for sure and perhaps miss the chance to be with her.
First be confident, why shouldn't she like you? You're OK right?
Second if she does like you she is undoubtable feeling just as unsure as you are.
Try talking to her about normal every day things, your classes would be a great start. Ask about a particular problem or piece of homework. See what sort of reaction you get. Once you've broken the ice it'll be easier. Then you can move on to other things like what her interests are outside school. Be friendly, be yourself, and remember people love to talk about themselve so when she is talking listen to her. See how you go from there.
Good luck
2006-11-28 05:54:59
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answered by gerrifriend 6
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Number one sign is she'll tell you, or tell someone else that will tell you. Find out if she even dates "that's important!" What your experiencing is puppy love. Your young just approach her and talk to her. What's the worst she can say. Your only 13 you've got a lot of dating in your lifetime so if her reaction is not what you were hoping for, let it go. This is time for trial and era. The worst is to sit and watch her all day. She might start to think your a stalker. You should try to find what her interest are, things she likes to do, places she likes to go, etc. Don't hang your head if you get rejected even brad pit has gotten rejected come on, one of his first jobs was to dress like a chicken in high school. You could be the next brad pit!
2006-11-26 20:19:53
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on the Girl a shy girl will look at you and talk with you but not much. A prep will tease you and you think she likes you but most likely not. Its best for both if you just ask her to go out with you. the worst that can happen is she says no.
2006-11-26 21:29:45
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answered by Emma H 1
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Awww...young love! Well, there is no way for sure to know if she likes you too. I would say at this point, pay a lot of attention to her and make sure she notices you. However you want to go about doing that is totally up to you. Don't make yourself look stupid though. Gals don't like that. Good luck and remember to follow your heart!
2006-11-26 21:12:49
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answered by onbelay_belayon 2
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Well get to know her more and remember some girls are dying for a boyfrend but are way shy so be romantic and get her heart but make sure she isn't seeing sum1 else first
2006-11-29 11:03:27
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answered by Anonymous
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im sorry to say but boys are scared of rejection... you need to be brave and maybe drop hints that you like her and you think she is really pretty....BUT by what you just said below it seems as if she was taking the mick out of you in tech or talking about you so if i was you i would think about it before you say anything.... if you really like her and you dont care what she has said about you then go for it babe..good look..xx
2006-11-28 12:27:07
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answered by Bradiie Babes--Ox 2
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awwwww........this is just too CUTE!!! young love! babe, ur only 13. ur too young 4 "love"
but if u think she likes u go up and talk 2 her. if she really likes u then she'll stay and talk if not she will ignore u or walk away.
personally ithink she was trying to get ur attention and see if u like her.
i think she does. only time will tell
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-29 22:37:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Be a man. Just ask her casually if she likes you. Ask her out. Whatever you do don't ask her friends if she like you. That's just plain week.
2006-11-26 21:05:42
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answered by Tucker C 4
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How about asking her out and see how she feels about you!
2006-11-28 14:18:04
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answered by Nardia G 1
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