is it really bad to be thin!?!
apparently "real women have curves"
i mean im not stick thin, but i do wear a four... i have a fast metabolism... so what should i do?!?!?!! im so depressed... these people keep harrassing me online about me being ugly and theyve never even met me. should i try to gain weight or something???
2006-11-26 12:11:27 · 25 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
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2006-11-26 12:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honey, dont worry about them. If they've never met you, they obviously cant judge you. I think the only people you should truly listen to are your close friends and your family, and i know they would never say anything to hurt you. Be lucky you are a size four. There are millions of people in america who are overweight and wish they could be thin like you.
Also, if you "try" to gain weight by eating fatty foods and you still dont gain weight from it, then stop. That signals that it's not gonna affect your body, but your health which could be even worse. Havent you ever seen thin people who are actually "out-of-shape"? that's beacuse they eat crappy foods and it's ruining their heart and lungs and other organs.
Take my advise. You are beautiful the way you are. Dont let any stranger tell you that you arent because they're just saying that to make you sad which makes them feel good inside. No one has the right to really judge you.
2006-11-26 12:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by BEAutiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny let me tell u sumthing, you should be thankful to wear
a four... and if you have a fast metabolism it will really difficult
for u to gain weight unless u take pills or something which isnt safe..so if i was u I would enjoy being thin and embrace your beauty no matter what people tell you...Also try and find clothes that fit you right and show off the better parts of your body..like you belly or if you have nice legs then show them off...also dont wear to much makeup, it looks tacky.dont worry what people say,cuz most people say **** just to make themselfs feel better.
you know you are beautiful and you dont need someone off the internet to tell u otherwise.
2006-11-26 12:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with being thin. Some people are so focused on all the anorexic models that they assume that any skinny person must have an eating disorger. Truth is people are born with different body types, and whatever size you are is fine for you. Don't let other people get you down.
2006-11-26 12:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to them because they're making it worse. You should be happy about the way you are not what others think or say. Do what you want to do just dont let them get in the way, i mean now a days people are making fun of other people and they dont even know them? and be careful gaining and losing weight is tough so Good Luck
2006-11-26 12:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the saying "Real women have curves" is more of a metaphoric thing. Real women don't try to change themselves to try and fit an image that the media portrays. That isn't real. I'm so sorry that people are harassing you. Realize that you are beautiful, no matter what. The people who are harassing you are probably envious. Don't change for anyone. Be yourself and try not to let them get to you.
2006-11-26 13:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I would rather be you. Yeah, I have curves, lots of them. I wear a 32DD bra, which I like (it can be a pain though), but I wear a size 12 and I hate it. I would much rather be thin. Beauty isn't about a shape or a size though. It's about an attitude. I bet you are really beautiful.
2006-11-26 13:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never something to be ashamed of. People are probably just jealous that they're not as skinny as you. Like some of my friends call me anorexcic because they say I dont eat lunch but the only reason I don't is because i'm just not hungry during that time. Turns out everyone's just jealous of me
2006-11-26 12:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are truly happy with themselves, they wouldn't say anything to anyone else to build themselves up. I mean, when someone is truly happy with themselves, they won't ever say anything. They are only people who aren't perfect (like all humans) but want to hide their insecurities by "bringing others down" I mean why on earth would someone get in the internet and start harassing you.
They need to get a life, obviously.
2006-11-26 12:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being skinny is not a bad thing, i wish i was in your situation. you shouldnt care what those people think of you, they are obviously like that because they are insecure themselves. and anyone else that does the same are probably not your friends so stick with the people that really care about you and dont try to change yourself for others.
2006-11-26 12:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being thin. Do you know how many people envy you for your size and body? Be happy that you are so blessed. Those who make fun of you are really jealous. You are healthy. Believe me, you are so fortunate-
2006-11-26 12:15:54 · answer #11 · answered by Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋