At the beginning of the year, my friend told me out of the blue that she feels like I exclude her in a lot of things and that I say really mean things to her.
I admit that I do exclude her sort of, but its not really mean, its just that I will talk to someone about something that happened when she wasn't there. As for the saying mean things, I think maybe once or twice I have, but I'm only human. I just remembered this fight, and I still am kind of hurt.
She also told me that she thought I replaced her with my other friend, but NOW she's replaced me with that same friend!
What should I do?
2006-11-26 12:05:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like she has some insecurity issues. She depends on you for friendship and only you. Doesn't like to see that you have other friends too. Don't carry a grudge from the previous fight - you know who it will hurt the most? YOU!!! Let it go. Don't resort to playing her childish games. Hopefully she will grow up as she gets older.
2006-11-26 12:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by burnettebreeze98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's getting back at you for what you did. You're in a competition with your friend right now. Be the smarter person & get yourself out of it. The fact that you admitted how you were to your friend shows how strong of a person you are. It's good that you admitted you were wrong, rather than saying your friend's just being mean for no reason. Talk to her..say, "You were a really good friend of mine & it's silly to be like this. I miss us hanging out & talking & I promise to never exclude you or to be mean to you 'cuz that's not being a real friend." She should forgive you & if she doesn't, she's most likely not worth your time anyways. When people admit they're wrong, that says a lot about the person.
2006-11-26 20:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should of done from the begining.Treat her with respect and your equal. There is this old saying.What goes around comes around. Now your on the other end.It is a good lesson to learn on how to treat friends. So maybe u should just talk to her and get it all out on the table and both of u apologize.Good luck hon
2006-11-26 20:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're apparently excluding her for some reason or another. Whatever that reason is, take it into consideration and continue to EXCLUDE her. I've excluded people for various reasons, some females can't be "in your mix;" with that, she doesn't seem like someone I would consider a true friend; she sounds needy and annoying...
2006-11-26 20:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same position of your friend. i thougt my friend replaced me and treaeted me like crap. she sed that i sed some mean stuff and i told her she did too.as u sed we r only human. if u value ur friend's friendship tell her that and that you want to make a bigger effort to stay friends. i dont think its worth holding a grudge. you two just need to talk about how you guys feel.
2006-11-26 20:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, let it go and if things change you may want to reconsider.
2006-11-26 20:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't all of you try being friends together?
2006-11-26 20:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what comes around goes around you replaced her she replaced you ......
2006-11-26 20:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her
2006-11-26 20:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
childish. jealousy.
2006-11-26 20:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋