Ok, now i do praise my husband enough. I am in college and i have a couple of good friends who are boys, i just informally expressed my husband once that one of them is really cute and i like him. He expressed total dislike to my comment! I do not have any crush or any fantasies about anyone, but my husband! but why such distrust!?
A couple of times before this event happened, I used to priase some good looking actors or even people i meet. Everytime i did that my husband felt very pissed off! I was just talking to him like anyother friend! So is it wrong to praise other men in front of your husband?
Now i dont, but i always wonder whats wrong really!
2006-11-26 11:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm...maybe.
It depends. Its not a matter of distrust. He does not distrust you but fears that eventually you might get attracted to some other men. He does not trust other men, not distrust you. He thinks those other men will allure you into having an infatuation about them. worse yet he may be thinking you already have some infatuation about those men you are praising. I would suggest do not praise other men very frequently. If you do it once in a while its fine. but if its done more than often you are out for trouble girl! Praise your husband frequently though. Afterall he is the cutest guy on earth for you rt?
You may just have an admiration, or plutonic liking for those other men you are praising. But you should not admire any other mans physcial apprearance apart from your husbands. He has the right to expect that from you!
2006-11-26 13:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Someday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right
Husbands dont like it when thier wives praise other men, be it actors or just anyone. They have the right to be the prime men in your life and they should be. Not only should you show sexual interest, or love and comfort to your husband but also should know that in a good marriage you also need to "be crazy" about your spouse. Emotionally, mentally and physcially. If you praise other men, you are ruling out the possiblity of being mentally attracted to your husband and are constantly looking at other men!
2006-11-26 13:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you OK with him praising women. I don't think that kind of praise is going to make a partner feel good. Is there part of you that enjoys seeing jealousy from your man. I bet you are a jealous person, and aren't put in that kind of situation by your man. Take some hints from what he isn't doing to you, like making you feel like your partner would at anytime, take advantage of an opportunity if it arises. Whats wrong with letting your man know that he is the one, and everyone else is second place?
2006-11-26 13:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Praising other men
2014-12-15 22:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not usually a good idea to praise men other than your husband.
Husbands usually don't like it...
2006-11-26 11:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 09:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, how many times has he said an actress is hot? If I were him I'd appreciate the honesty. Now this is coming from a woman so I don't know if this is the advice you want, but expect him to retaliate by saying how hot your friends are. Then again maybe if he's that self concious just don't say it.
2006-11-26 12:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear, i hear you
yes, thats so true
Men dont like thier wives appreciating other men, niether do women. May be they are possesive? You may not be having a any feelings, lust or crush about other men, but your husband expects you to have crush on him ;). And only him, same with wives too
2006-11-26 13:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Larissa_J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably feels the woman he married thinks other people are hotter than him and by you coming home saying you saw this cute guy and you like him of course he's not going to be to happy. How would you like it if he said to you wow love those womans breast her *** i could take a piece of that. how would that make you feel.
Leave these things to girlfriend talks with your female buddies not with your husband. its a put down for him to hear this. and he will feel he's worthless in your eyes.
2006-11-26 17:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure they don't like it. I don't like it when they praise other women for their beauty too. If he does it, I will purposely do the same to them.
2006-11-26 21:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋