I like to .......masturbate. Is this healthy? Is it wrong?

Question

I love to watch my husband masturbate or do it for him. Is this healthy? Is it wrong?

Answer 1

no, not at all

Answer 2

Hello, Masturbating is definitely healthy but I think you might be slightly overdoing it. Masturbating all the time is surely harmful in the long run as you might not be able to do other important things. Most importantly, Don't Miss Class People!!!!!!!!!! I think you need to take up some sports activity just to keep your mind on other things as well. Why not try exercise? Singing? Painting? Don't go around thinking its bad. Bye!

Answer 3

Wow luv! That's so nice!

There's nothing wrong with that at all! In fact, it's only normal and healthy for two people who love each other to share this very personnal and intimate experience! My hubby absolutly goes wil when I give him a HJ... He says my HJs are often better than BJs from other girls he got from the past!

And I too love to watch him do himself... I usually end up doing my own self in the process, so it turns into a mutual masturbation set for both of us!

As long as you both enjoy it, there's absolutly nothing wrong with what goes on between a couple.

Answer 4

It's healthy to masturbate you shouldn't feel ashamed of it. Everybody does it with a few exceptions.

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong, unbless someone convinces you it is, based on dogma taught by religious institutions.. In the long run, it helps presvent enlargement of the protate gland in men, a good thing.

Answer 6

Masturbating is 100% healthy, and 100% normal and IT IS NOT WRONG at all ....(IF IT FEELS GOOD....DO IT).....you are a awsum wife, you do or help your hubby masturbate, YOU GO GIRL wooohooooooo :))

Answer 7

Yeah embracing one another is always healthy and I see nothing wrong with it. I love it when my gf plays with mine it turns me on seeing her get excited and into the motion.

Answer 8

Of course its NATURAL and its even HEALTHY!

Masturbating helps prevent prostate cancer in men and helps get rid of weak and build up of sperm/semen. It also gets rid of stress and hormones that make you angry and stressed out and crap.

So its like morphine without the drug part.

Answer 9

It has been said that what ever you and your husband enjoy doing together is good and not wrong. Keep it up for him

Answer 10

It's very healthy. Try to do it in as many creative ways as possible.

Answer 11

Connection between ejaculation frequency and prostate health
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/4961.html

QUESTION:
I have been coming across articles on the connection between masturbation, ejaculation, and overall health. I was very surprised about this article from the Cancer Council Victoria in Australia . It was a study that confirmed that ejaculation frequency is important for a healthy prostate. The protective effect was most significant in men in their twenties who ejaculated on average 7 or more times per week. It compared this against same-age men who ejaculated less than 3 times per week. I made a New Year's resolution to pay attention to my body and to ejaculate at least once a day. I feel much better for it and my penis strength and sexual urge has increased immensely. I feel balanced. After a year, I can't imagine going back to my old repressed frequency and probably couldn?t keep from cumming for a whole day if I tried now. Why aren?t people made aware of this need? After getting used to daily +, I often have the urge to do it even more, but hold back. Are there any physical problems with over ejaculating?

ANSWER:
What a fabulous New Year’s resolution to pay attention to your body! Your efforts are worth applauding, as being in tune with yourself and your new masturbation schedule seems to have paid off, as you note that you feel “balanced” and “much better for it.” Happily, no physical problems are associated with over-ejaculating, so don’t worry about giving in to the natural urge to enjoy and pleasure yourself more often. You clearly have a strong awareness of the positive effects of masturbation on your body, so go ahead and experiment with masturbation frequency – in this way, you can determine what frequency feels best for you and your regular routine.

You also ask why people aren’t made aware of the “need” to masturbate often. Good question – especially in light of the study’s findings that frequent ejaculation helps reduce the risk of prostate cancer. Unfortunately, self-stimulation – as with most sexual acts – is often viewed as shameful, dirty, immoral, and all sorts of other negative adjectives. Wouldn’t it be great if masturbation could be seen as the healthy, enjoyable, and beneficial activity it really is, openly talked about and (gasp!) endorsed? Perhaps one day it will be – with more people like you who are open-minded and bold enough to talk about it in a positive light.

Enjoy – and pass that article along to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, and anybody and everybody else!


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MASTURBATION MYTHS:
from http://www.jackinworld.com/library/myths.html

Chances are, of all the things you've heard about masturbation, most of them were absolutely false. For some reason, misinformation surrounds masturbation like virtually no other topic. How do you spot a masturbation myth? One simple method is to ask yourself if the statement is also true of sexual intercourse. When you're masturbating, your body only knows it's getting sexually stimulated; it doesn't know by what means. So, for instance, if the question is whether or not masturbation causes acne, think of it this way: If it did, intercourse would also cause acne. In fact, neither masturbation nor intercourse cause acne.

MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.
FACT:
How many people with hair on their palms have you seen?
MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair loss, chronic fatigue, and other problems.
FACT:
Internet scam artists have tried to invent a concept called "overmasturbation," insisting that you have to buy their expensive herbal pills in order to counteract the effect of masturbating more than a couple of times per week. But the pills have absolutely no effect — and masturbating once or twice a day will not make your hair fall out, or cause anything else they claim.
MYTH:
Masturbation is bad for your eyesight.
FACT:
Masturbation does not affect eyesight. This myth probably originated because boys often start having to wear glasses at about the same age they start masturbating.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your penis to stop growing (or) to get bigger.
FACT:
Masturbation has no effect on penis size whatsoever.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your testicles to shrink.
FACT:
Absolutely false! It is true that if you're highly aroused, your testicles become engorged with blood and may appear slightly larger and heavier, and that masturbating will make them revert to normal. But they will absolutely not be any smaller than after the last time you masturbated.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes acne.
FACT:
It doesn't cause acne. Like the eyesight myth, this is a case of two things that happen at the same time, even though one doesn't cause the other.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.
FACT:
Hello? "Sexually transmitted" means from one person to another. You can't give yourself a sexually transmitted disease!
MYTH:
If you masturbate too much, you'll run out of semen and become sterile.
FACT:
Semen is a fully renewable resource. When you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more — the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit.
MYTH:
People can tell whether you masturbate by how your penis looks.
FACT:
Masturbation does not change the appearance of your penis. (It does tend to cause an erection, but that usually goes away when you're finished.)