i am going to get an altrasound in 2 weeks i want to know the sex of the baby husband don't what would u do?

Answer 1

Maybe he could leave the room, and you could find out. Then when the babys born, he will know.

Answer 2

I'd ask your husband to leave for a while and get the doctor to tell you.
However, it would probably come out later when you in particular are discussing things about the baby like getting the baby clothes, deciding names, room colours, toys etc. If your husband has half a brain he will work it out.
He does not want to know for 2 possible reasons, because perhaps he is hoping for one or the other sex. He does not want to be disappointed before the childs birth.
Or he has realised he does not need or want to know the gender of his child because he is already in love with it and cannot wait for the joy of surprise.

Answer 3

I had the same thing happen when I was pregnant with my last child. We couldn't agree. I decided to wait. I didn't want to be disappointed. The most important thing was our child was healthy.
Most men want little boys just think how disappointed your husband would be if it wasn't what he wanted or even you.
You could even have the nurse write the sex of the baby on a piece of paper. Fold it and stick it in an envelope and seal it. That way if he decides he wants to know, you can open it together.

Hope this helps! GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 4

Don't find out yet. i know it'll be hard, but he'll find out by what colors you look at and if you don't tell him you know the sex, he might feel betrayed. I'm sure at some point, you'll both come to a common decision. tell him that if he know's the sex of the baby, he can start to bond a little more by maybe picking a name and decorating the nursery sooner. Men don't have the same bond we have while we are still pregnant, let him know that by him knowing he can start to get a better bond!!

Answer 5

This one is really tricky. Even if you find out the sex, and your hubby steps out of the room when they tell you, it will be almost impossible to not let it slip. You will inevitably call it a he or she at some point and continue to do so throughout the rest of the pregnancy. Even if you try to call it "it" you will accidently slip up. If your hubby is ok with that, and if you try to name it the opposite sex on other times to keep him guessing, then it might work. Good luck. I get to find out on Thursday what our baby is :)

Answer 6

It will be hard to keep it a secret from him. He will notice when you start decorating or buying baby clothes. Even when you discuss names, he will know. Are you sure you really want to find out? You can still decorate in a neutral color like mint green or yellow and still be prepared. And the excitement of not knowing is worth the wait!!

Answer 7

I think this is something you should come to an agreement on. Ultimately, it's up to you. If you do find out and he doesn't, are you planning to not do any planning for the baby that will give away the sex?

Answer 8

If I really wanted to know I would ask. They are not always right though. Only do this if you can keep your mouth shut! He has the right to be surprised. I never knew the sex of my babies and I wouldn't want to. That's part of the process to me. Good luck and Congrats!

Answer 9

Have the ultrasound technician write on a peice of paper what the sex of the baby is, and fold it up, and then give it to you. Then you will know and your husband won't.

Answer 10

Is he going to the appt. with you? If not, just don't tell him. If he is tell the nurse to tell the Dr. that u want to know but hubby does not and ask if he can tell u after it is over and let husband step out of the room.