ok well first of all. im goin to make up names.. i am "diane", my boyfriend is "john" and his exbestfriend is" juan". ok so.i met juan and john at the same time. then i started to talk to juan.but then i kinda liked john so i started talking to him. we told juan about this and he forgave both of us.then 2 months later john and i started to go out.. but then we were not doin so good.one saturday i went to a party w/o my boyfriend..and juan was there.i was dancing with w/him..but then we began to drink..and we were still ok.but there was an after party and there we kept drinking. we were together were noone was at and he touched my hand and i touched his back then we just kissed.. but i told him it wasnt right but he just kissed me again and i didnt tell him no.. well then i told john that i had kissed juan and well we broke up. but then he forgave me but he didnt forgive juan.now me and john are doin realy good. but he really doesnt like juan. so how can i help them talk again??
2006-11-26 11:33:57 · 2 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its double standards, he forgives you but not his best friend. I wouldnt worry about it too much because he obviously doesnt think much of juan. I would just tell him straight that he has double standards that it wasnt juan's fault, both of you kissed, nothing was forced so you are just as much to blame as juan is. I think that is the only thing you can do, otherwise it is a friendship that wasnt meant to be and just accept it.
2006-11-26 11:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So Cristina you’re the PLAYER !! In the words of Dr. Phil,, “so how’s that working for you?” switching horses in the middle of the stream?? both horses should’a dumped ya !! garden tools is garden tools, best friends should mean more.
2006-11-26 20:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋