ok well my best friend is really protective. I'm not alowed to date but i want to shoild i secretly date. If i do my friend will tell my mom and i dont want that and at my school when your dating someone they usually sit by you at lunch what should i do plz help.!
2006-11-26 11:21:29 · 12 answers · asked by Danielle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you only need to get the permission of your parents. if they're okay with the idea of you dating, then your bestfriend won't have any reasons why he/she would stop you. let them know they can trust you and take care of that trust.
2006-11-26 11:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both your friend and your mom. Explain that you feel that you are mature and responsible enough to date a guy. Find reasons why you think you should be allowed to date too. If she has conditions for you, agree to them, if they're not too bad. If they're like really unreasonable, bargain with her. But DON'T ACCUSE! Parents will never agree.
2006-11-26 21:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your friend and you mom and explain to them that you are ready for relationships, and that your best friend should not have that much control over what you do. and if you best friend is trying to control you...are they really your friend??? and another thing is to pray and ask GOD, is it really your time to be in a relationship, cause He might still be preparing him for you and you for him. and only God only knows if you're ready for love...or lust depends on the situation (p.s. love gives you a wedding and lust gives you a condom)
2006-11-26 19:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your mom. She knows what is best for you. You have plenty of time for boys and they do complicate your life. You'll find out soon enough.
2006-11-26 19:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to sit by you and just meet him out of school like in a mall or something
2006-11-26 19:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by asiandude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you will always love her but having a bf means a lot to you. ask her if she would not tell your mom becuz u would really apreciate it.
2006-11-26 19:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your mom, its not the end of the world. your mom was young once. and this fling will pass anyways. good luck...
2006-11-26 19:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to your parents tell them you think you are old enough then see what happens!Hey thats what i would do!
2006-11-26 19:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about it. tell them you would really like it if they kept it a secret and would like it if they understood.
or
talk to your mom about dating and ask her if its okay with her.
if she says its not tell her that she would get to meet him and everything.
2006-11-26 19:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need help too 2 points
2006-11-26 19:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by kristi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋